I'm a teen/young adult (19 only a few months ago, but now 20). I'm a sophomore in a good university, doing well too, but still living under parents roof.
*Disclaimer: I do admit that I have a slight fetish since 13 or 14 of age for spanking, but PLAYFULLY. This plays an insignificant role in this topic, because I'm talking about punishment -- how I know this is because when my mom was still threatening me still at 16 (even though she stopped when i was 10) I of course didn't want it!
So please, read on. Skim through the background information as the questions stem from it (my personal experience), and please honestly answer the resulting questions, no matter how ridiculous some might seem. Also, this is not a debate about spanking, please stay on topic.....
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Background
Temper: I was, and still am, overall a good kid. Great relations with parents, good student, good friend, etc. But when I lose my temper, I throw tempter tantrums - when I was 5 years old, but sadly still sometimes at 20 years old.
Tantrums: The usual things I got in trouble (punishable offences) were: Hitting (note: not PUNCHING, 'gentle' slap, but a slap nonetheless) my 2 years younger sister or mom, excessive swearing, slamming doors, playing very loud music, throwing stuff (books, blankets, etc), etc.....most of the time it was one or a few combinations, but occasionally it was everything: A proper temper tantrum. Sadly, I still act up with my parents in the same way occasionally - I'm not proud of it, I am indeed ashamed, and I know I do need to be punished (hence this post): Still living under their roof when I'm not in my dorm at college.
Punishment (Spanking): I was spanked until I was 10 years old or so, most of the time by my mom since my dad works - and still does - overseas. After chasing me around the house, she would finally catch me, and proceed to sit on me (sometimes thats all it was, to control me until I calmed down), however she would sometimes spank me while sitting on me. Always with hand, always over pants, and always using the "Dont you ever *smack* ever *smack...." method - so not excessive, and not many
--I just recently realized how easily I got off - most kids, it seems, obliged and not resited, and were spanked OTK, on either underwear or even bare, and given even more than I was......
Other Punishments (Physical): Mouth washed out with soap was common until age 10 too, while a slap on the face carried through - hardly ever - and now i can dodge it anyway (last 'attempt' to slap my face was prob when i was 18)
Other Punishments (Age 11-15): After the spanking stopped at age 10, other things became more prevalent: Grounding and/or loss of privilege (No TV and/or Computer, and/or Internet, and/or Video Games etc) for 1-3 weeks
Other Punishments (Age 16-20): By age 16 or so, I just ignored my punishment when mom wasn't around - when she was at work, for example, and sneak on the internet or watch tv. By age 17/17.5 I would simply disregard any punishment leveled at me without caring if she knew or not -- and by 17.5/18, she basically stopped, despite still being a brat throwing tantrums occasionally.
When I was 16, my sister just turned 15, we were in the car and we acted up - I 'hit' her as we just got home. When I got out of the car, mom was was like "I'm gonna smack you're bottom if you continue" - most recent, and last ever threat I received about that
Currently: My younger sister is 18, and a Freshman in college. She's just as bratty, but in a more sassy, whiny way. Same punishment detailed applied to her. Over winter break, she was acting up and I was in my room, my sister was in her room sulking - I over heard my mom in the kitchen tell my dad "What she needs is a good spanking", he agreed -- obviously didn't carry though, and hasn't done since we we're 10, but her thought was there.....keep that in mind.....
With all that said, I have questions - some hypothetical, of which some I would never do but just wondering - so please, answer them all honestly and fully, and then add any comment you want. Just please answer the questions. Thanks:
How you would punish:
1.) If I was you're child, how would you punish and/or spank me if I was 10 or so
2.) If I was you're child how would you punish/spank me between the ages of 13-18 if acted as such?
3.) Would you punish/spank you're child even if he/she was 19-20 and in college, if you felt it was deserved? Even if you stopped spanking a decade go - how would you go about it (ie, she/he is much bigger now) if so?
4.) If your teen ignored punishments as described, and you found out what would you do?
What If.....
5.) If you're 19 or 20 year old teen in college ASKED directly, out of the blue, to spank him/her, what would you do? Honestly.....
6.) If you're 20 year old did something bad (excessive swearing at you, slamming doors, etc) and then mockingly dared you by saying "What are you going to do, spank me?"
6a.) If 18-20 year old does something bad, and you say, "you need a spanking" or something a long those line, and he mockingly responds by saying "I dare you" or the like, what would you do?
7.) If your teen/20 year old is acting up, keeping in mind he/she hasnt been spanked for several years, and randomly comes up to you and quickly pulls down your sweat pants, and slaps you're butt 2 quick times or so on your panties, no doubt you'll be enraged, but how would you react? Would you spank him then? Or what...?
How
8.) Since you are moms and thus parents, obviously being 20 I wont even get punished again, let alone a threat of any sort.......Is there any way I can't get my mom to spank me, without her dismissing it, leaving me in total embarrassment and/or telling her friends(She prob wouldnt, but still), and/or telling dad (she prob would, but her would rather not)
--> Basically, is there anything you're 18-20 year old son/daughter could do or say to prompt such discipline?
*Note: Don't take this all the wrong way. I'm not perverted. I don't WANT to be spanked. But I KNOW I deserve it, I know deep down my mom knows it too, and has seen I was a young teen.......
*Disclaimer: I do admit that I have a slight fetish since 13 or 14 of age for spanking, but PLAYFULLY. This plays an insignificant role in this topic, because I'm talking about punishment -- how I know this is because when my mom was still threatening me still at 16 (even though she stopped when i was 10) I of course didn't want it!
So please, read on. Skim through the background information as the questions stem from it (my personal experience), and please honestly answer the resulting questions, no matter how ridiculous some might seem. Also, this is not a debate about spanking, please stay on topic.....
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Background
Temper: I was, and still am, overall a good kid. Great relations with parents, good student, good friend, etc. But when I lose my temper, I throw tempter tantrums - when I was 5 years old, but sadly still sometimes at 20 years old.
Tantrums: The usual things I got in trouble (punishable offences) were: Hitting (note: not PUNCHING, 'gentle' slap, but a slap nonetheless) my 2 years younger sister or mom, excessive swearing, slamming doors, playing very loud music, throwing stuff (books, blankets, etc), etc.....most of the time it was one or a few combinations, but occasionally it was everything: A proper temper tantrum. Sadly, I still act up with my parents in the same way occasionally - I'm not proud of it, I am indeed ashamed, and I know I do need to be punished (hence this post): Still living under their roof when I'm not in my dorm at college.
Punishment (Spanking): I was spanked until I was 10 years old or so, most of the time by my mom since my dad works - and still does - overseas. After chasing me around the house, she would finally catch me, and proceed to sit on me (sometimes thats all it was, to control me until I calmed down), however she would sometimes spank me while sitting on me. Always with hand, always over pants, and always using the "Dont you ever *smack* ever *smack...." method - so not excessive, and not many
--I just recently realized how easily I got off - most kids, it seems, obliged and not resited, and were spanked OTK, on either underwear or even bare, and given even more than I was......
Other Punishments (Physical): Mouth washed out with soap was common until age 10 too, while a slap on the face carried through - hardly ever - and now i can dodge it anyway (last 'attempt' to slap my face was prob when i was 18)
Other Punishments (Age 11-15): After the spanking stopped at age 10, other things became more prevalent: Grounding and/or loss of privilege (No TV and/or Computer, and/or Internet, and/or Video Games etc) for 1-3 weeks
Other Punishments (Age 16-20): By age 16 or so, I just ignored my punishment when mom wasn't around - when she was at work, for example, and sneak on the internet or watch tv. By age 17/17.5 I would simply disregard any punishment leveled at me without caring if she knew or not -- and by 17.5/18, she basically stopped, despite still being a brat throwing tantrums occasionally.
When I was 16, my sister just turned 15, we were in the car and we acted up - I 'hit' her as we just got home. When I got out of the car, mom was was like "I'm gonna smack you're bottom if you continue" - most recent, and last ever threat I received about that
Currently: My younger sister is 18, and a Freshman in college. She's just as bratty, but in a more sassy, whiny way. Same punishment detailed applied to her. Over winter break, she was acting up and I was in my room, my sister was in her room sulking - I over heard my mom in the kitchen tell my dad "What she needs is a good spanking", he agreed -- obviously didn't carry though, and hasn't done since we we're 10, but her thought was there.....keep that in mind.....
With all that said, I have questions - some hypothetical, of which some I would never do but just wondering - so please, answer them all honestly and fully, and then add any comment you want. Just please answer the questions. Thanks:
How you would punish:
1.) If I was you're child, how would you punish and/or spank me if I was 10 or so
2.) If I was you're child how would you punish/spank me between the ages of 13-18 if acted as such?
3.) Would you punish/spank you're child even if he/she was 19-20 and in college, if you felt it was deserved? Even if you stopped spanking a decade go - how would you go about it (ie, she/he is much bigger now) if so?
4.) If your teen ignored punishments as described, and you found out what would you do?
What If.....
5.) If you're 19 or 20 year old teen in college ASKED directly, out of the blue, to spank him/her, what would you do? Honestly.....
6.) If you're 20 year old did something bad (excessive swearing at you, slamming doors, etc) and then mockingly dared you by saying "What are you going to do, spank me?"
6a.) If 18-20 year old does something bad, and you say, "you need a spanking" or something a long those line, and he mockingly responds by saying "I dare you" or the like, what would you do?
7.) If your teen/20 year old is acting up, keeping in mind he/she hasnt been spanked for several years, and randomly comes up to you and quickly pulls down your sweat pants, and slaps you're butt 2 quick times or so on your panties, no doubt you'll be enraged, but how would you react? Would you spank him then? Or what...?
How
8.) Since you are moms and thus parents, obviously being 20 I wont even get punished again, let alone a threat of any sort.......Is there any way I can't get my mom to spank me, without her dismissing it, leaving me in total embarrassment and/or telling her friends(She prob wouldnt, but still), and/or telling dad (she prob would, but her would rather not)
--> Basically, is there anything you're 18-20 year old son/daughter could do or say to prompt such discipline?
*Note: Don't take this all the wrong way. I'm not perverted. I don't WANT to be spanked. But I KNOW I deserve it, I know deep down my mom knows it too, and has seen I was a young teen.......
