Hello, just a little background. I have been living with my girlfriend and her three kids for about 5 years now. The middle child is 19 and always ignores me unless I specifically say hi to him or ask him a question. We attend a church and he is always all hugs and smiles to everyone there going out of his way to be nice. He is sometimes nice to his siblings and his mother but has definite mood swings. I have mentioned to him on a few occasions if he has a problem with me and is everything fine. He said yes and that was about it. What else can I be doing? It is putting a strain on my relationship with my girlfriend because I express my frustration with the situation. Ok to be honest I'm sure I complain about it too much to her.
I know he has said to his mom recenltly that she should have stayed with their dad because he makes more money and he wouldnt have to pay for his school books and things like that. Although he doesnt get along with his father either. He was physically abusive to my girlfriend, that is why she left. This issue has been going on for a few years now.
My "solution" is to just try to be civil and either hope the issue goes away or wait for him to move out.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
I know he has said to his mom recenltly that she should have stayed with their dad because he makes more money and he wouldnt have to pay for his school books and things like that. Although he doesnt get along with his father either. He was physically abusive to my girlfriend, that is why she left. This issue has been going on for a few years now.
My "solution" is to just try to be civil and either hope the issue goes away or wait for him to move out.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.