Alenya has been giving me a little bit of trouble whenever we would go grocery shopping. I think she gets bored, which is understandable for a toddler to spend about a half hour looking at food. So I told her that if she behaves she'll get one little packet of stickers. She behaved and got them! Everytime she would act up a little I would remind her and she behaved. Whenever we got to the stickers I let her pick out her packet and told her if she wanted to keep them she had to listen. It worked! I was so excited. Stickers are like 50 cents, so no big deal.
Something else I tried. Is this weekend we went without watching any of her long Disney movies. I would give her a half hour while I was making dinner and when that half hour was up she had to go play, paint, do something else. So this weekend as a reward for not crying whenever we didn't watch what she wanted I let her watch "Ariel" ....the little mermaid. It worked pretty well. When it was over she turned off the tv and said, "Okay, all done. Can I paint, now?" It was WONDERFUL!
Now I just have to get dh in on this....she acts totally different whenever she's just with him.
Something else I tried. Is this weekend we went without watching any of her long Disney movies. I would give her a half hour while I was making dinner and when that half hour was up she had to go play, paint, do something else. So this weekend as a reward for not crying whenever we didn't watch what she wanted I let her watch "Ariel" ....the little mermaid. It worked pretty well. When it was over she turned off the tv and said, "Okay, all done. Can I paint, now?" It was WONDERFUL!
Now I just have to get dh in on this....she acts totally different whenever she's just with him.