Son2 (28 yo on disability) is here for a month to save money and pay some debt. Son1 (with wife and 7 mo baby) planned to come this week for a week vacation from a very stressful year (relationship, business, 2 moves, new baby, lost job). Son2 is (has always been) very difficult to be around. Son 1 called to say he cannot happily spend a week here with his brother and his negative, disrespectful, and selfish ways. We want Son1, DIL and Grand baby, to come but we don't want to reject Son2 and tell him to leave while his brother will be here. Also some family friends are coming on the weekend for a group gathering, which makes it hard to tell Son2 he has to leave before the weekend. We can't seem to find a resolution. Not an easy one....