Hello, so I am a father specifically looking for serious advice from women/mothers (thanks anyway Dads). My daughter is currently a toddler and I obviously want to raise her to be everything she can and dreams to be. Though the world can obviously be a difficult place sometimes, especially for women. Here's what I mean by that:
I view the society we live in as rather misogynistic towards women, particularly in the way that they are disproportionately valued as sex objects. It seems that sex appeal is the default scale by which we value women. Perhaps my perception is skewed simply because I am a man, though I doubt many would disagree with me. With that in mind, I certainly don't want to have my daughter growing up thinking that she has to act hyper-sexual (as media often portrays them) just to be of value.
At the same time, I also don't want to make my daughter feel as if she should not feel free to express herself (even if it happens to be in ways that are sexually-oriented or at least sexually suggestive). Naturally I would limit her actions as a minor in my household to social norms/laws as well as what I feel appropriate). But aside from that, I don't want to inhibit or repress her sexuality or self-expression. After all, sex is a natural part of life. As a result, I often wonder where the sweet spot is between these two issues.
So my question to you (the women/moms) is: What would you suggest is an appropriate balance between allowing sexual self-expression and limiting misogynistic influence? Thank you for reading and for your feedback!
I view the society we live in as rather misogynistic towards women, particularly in the way that they are disproportionately valued as sex objects. It seems that sex appeal is the default scale by which we value women. Perhaps my perception is skewed simply because I am a man, though I doubt many would disagree with me. With that in mind, I certainly don't want to have my daughter growing up thinking that she has to act hyper-sexual (as media often portrays them) just to be of value.
At the same time, I also don't want to make my daughter feel as if she should not feel free to express herself (even if it happens to be in ways that are sexually-oriented or at least sexually suggestive). Naturally I would limit her actions as a minor in my household to social norms/laws as well as what I feel appropriate). But aside from that, I don't want to inhibit or repress her sexuality or self-expression. After all, sex is a natural part of life. As a result, I often wonder where the sweet spot is between these two issues.
So my question to you (the women/moms) is: What would you suggest is an appropriate balance between allowing sexual self-expression and limiting misogynistic influence? Thank you for reading and for your feedback!