My niece wants to stay at a friend's house and something about the girl's dad gives me the creeps. The kid in question is lovely and her mother seems ok but I can't put my finger on what I don't like about the dad. I certainly don't think that it is a good idea to site this as a reason when saying no because there is no proof of anything at all untoward, I just don't feel comfortable with him. It turns out that this weekend we have to go to a family xmas thing so we compromised and she can bring her friend with us. But sooner or later this will come up again.
In future, should I let her go secure in the knowledge that the mom is there or should I say no? or am I being grossly unfair to this man when all I have to go on is my own feelings?
If I do say no what do I tell her. I am not great with the whole no thing yet but then there have been no truly unreasonable requests.
In future, should I let her go secure in the knowledge that the mom is there or should I say no? or am I being grossly unfair to this man when all I have to go on is my own feelings?
If I do say no what do I tell her. I am not great with the whole no thing yet but then there have been no truly unreasonable requests.