I have been playing chess with my boy (11) for several months now. I am really happy he has taken an interest in it. I have played all my life and loved it. Always considered it a "thinking persons" game.
When I was a boy my dad would always say that he never let us win. And I kinda believe that even now. Dad sucks at chess. But I am afraid I will either discourage him from playing by kickin his little 11 yr old butt all the time. Or insult him by letting him win. So far I have stuck with my dads system of "you have to earn it" But I dont know anymore. I want to encourage him.
Dont really have an ethics issue here. Just not very good at lying.
What do you think.
When I was a boy my dad would always say that he never let us win. And I kinda believe that even now. Dad sucks at chess. But I am afraid I will either discourage him from playing by kickin his little 11 yr old butt all the time. Or insult him by letting him win. So far I have stuck with my dads system of "you have to earn it" But I dont know anymore. I want to encourage him.
Dont really have an ethics issue here. Just not very good at lying.
What do you think.