Question from Parent:
I'm having such a hard time with my 14 month old. he intentionally slaps, pinches and bites. he doesn't see anyone in our family doing it so i don't understand where it's coming from or really how to handle it. i feel like i'm constantly telling him "please don't, that hurts mommy" and sometimes after he hurts me and i show pain he gives me a little kiss, i say "thank you" and then he hits me again. i'm getting so frustrated sometimes i slap the hand he hits me with and he whines for a minute while i hold him and try to tell him that it hurts and that's why i ask him not to do it but i don't feel it's getting anywhere yet. maybe it's just his age but i have bite and scratch marks all over me and sometimes i feel like i'm being held hostage. can anyone offer some advice? and please no judgments, thank you.
I'm having such a hard time with my 14 month old. he intentionally slaps, pinches and bites. he doesn't see anyone in our family doing it so i don't understand where it's coming from or really how to handle it. i feel like i'm constantly telling him "please don't, that hurts mommy" and sometimes after he hurts me and i show pain he gives me a little kiss, i say "thank you" and then he hits me again. i'm getting so frustrated sometimes i slap the hand he hits me with and he whines for a minute while i hold him and try to tell him that it hurts and that's why i ask him not to do it but i don't feel it's getting anywhere yet. maybe it's just his age but i have bite and scratch marks all over me and sometimes i feel like i'm being held hostage. can anyone offer some advice? and please no judgments, thank you.