Its been a while since my last post. Things hadnt been too bad.
Recently though, my SS is out of hand. He has become very
Selfish and disrespectful. He talks back and questions EVERTHING.
His mum told him to get ready for school and he flat out said no. This happened twice. I was in the car when he slams his way into his seat. I ask whats going on and he yells "shut up" i basically told him no one, especially an 11 yo talks to me like that. When he got in he tried to run away. We had a good thanksgiving with family but now back to normal, hes threatening to run again. The thing is, my wife and i are different in parenting ways. I say, open the door see how far he gets (i wouldnt let anything happen to him) she says no way. She basically disagrees with everything i say or do. He's making my life a misery right now and i feel i havd
no one to talk to. I will end up shouting and getting everyone upset. I just want to walk away. Its aweful to say, i love my wife n baby but my life is a misery right now and its all because of my ss. He tries to make everything his desision. Like tonight my wife said, lights out 10.30, he basically gave her a hard time as though it was 5:00pm bedtime. At 10:30 on the dot he says he wants a bath. He ends up going to bec near on 11 and the wife doesnt question the fact that he decided when its bedtime and it worked. When i point this stuff out im the bad guy. My wifes response to the car episode was that i am too negative. Not one thing about himmshouting at me. So what do i do cos im at thd end of my rope here.
Recently though, my SS is out of hand. He has become very
Selfish and disrespectful. He talks back and questions EVERTHING.
His mum told him to get ready for school and he flat out said no. This happened twice. I was in the car when he slams his way into his seat. I ask whats going on and he yells "shut up" i basically told him no one, especially an 11 yo talks to me like that. When he got in he tried to run away. We had a good thanksgiving with family but now back to normal, hes threatening to run again. The thing is, my wife and i are different in parenting ways. I say, open the door see how far he gets (i wouldnt let anything happen to him) she says no way. She basically disagrees with everything i say or do. He's making my life a misery right now and i feel i havd
no one to talk to. I will end up shouting and getting everyone upset. I just want to walk away. Its aweful to say, i love my wife n baby but my life is a misery right now and its all because of my ss. He tries to make everything his desision. Like tonight my wife said, lights out 10.30, he basically gave her a hard time as though it was 5:00pm bedtime. At 10:30 on the dot he says he wants a bath. He ends up going to bec near on 11 and the wife doesnt question the fact that he decided when its bedtime and it worked. When i point this stuff out im the bad guy. My wifes response to the car episode was that i am too negative. Not one thing about himmshouting at me. So what do i do cos im at thd end of my rope here.