My niece and her three children came to live me with recently. She has just moved back into the area and hasn't found work yet. I try to be respectful of her parenting. I do not interfere although sometimes I want to. She has been staying up all night playing video games and then sleeping most of the day. Her children are 10, 9 and 7. They have to make their own breakfast and lunch because she sleeps until 2 or 3 in the afternoon. The 7 year old recently got in trouble because she was hungry and got food out of the refrigerator to make her a sandwich. She accidentally dropped and broke a jar of jelly and spilled the milk all over the table. She tried to clean it up the mess but it was still evident of what had happened when I got home. My niece was yelling at the child and punished her by sending her to bed without any dinner. She must have seen my disapproval because she asked me if I thought she was out of line. I told her yes. If she is going to sleep all day and let the children fend for themselves then this is what is going to happen. She is lucky that they did not start a fire as there was a pan on the stove with soup in it and paper towels. I was told that since I didn't have children, I wouldn't know anything of how to raise a child. That was two weeks ago and she has not spoken to me since. Am I in the wrong? I have been making the children breakfast and lunch ever since and putting it in the refrigerator so all they have to do if serve themselves. Will except any advise I can get. Thank you in advance.