Is there an easy way to stop children from taking temper tantrums because Kate is very bad for taking tantrums, even in public, to say I was embarrassed is an understatement :-(?
The worst one in public was outside School. She wanted to go round to her friends house but I said no so she took a tantrum outside the gate, she started to cry loudly and kept saying to me "I want to go to my friends house", I ignored her but she just started crying louder, other children were coming out of the School and were looking at her so I said to her very firmly "Kate, stop crying, people are looking at you and seeing you cry like a baby!!" but she just said "I don't care" and continued to cry so I started to walk home with her , when we got inside I sent her straight up to her room until she had calmed down which was an hour later. When she had calmed down she came downstairs and said sorry for taking a tantrum, I then said to her "thats ok sweetheart but you were very silly, other kids saw you crying, you are too big to be crying", then I gave her a hug and kiss.
She takes a lot of tantrums in house as well but I just send her to her room until she has calmed down, her dad has been known to use naughty corner when she takes a tantrum and has even smacked her on occasion but I don't believe in smacking her and every time I have used naughty corner, I can't get her to stay on it.
The worst one in public was outside School. She wanted to go round to her friends house but I said no so she took a tantrum outside the gate, she started to cry loudly and kept saying to me "I want to go to my friends house", I ignored her but she just started crying louder, other children were coming out of the School and were looking at her so I said to her very firmly "Kate, stop crying, people are looking at you and seeing you cry like a baby!!" but she just said "I don't care" and continued to cry so I started to walk home with her , when we got inside I sent her straight up to her room until she had calmed down which was an hour later. When she had calmed down she came downstairs and said sorry for taking a tantrum, I then said to her "thats ok sweetheart but you were very silly, other kids saw you crying, you are too big to be crying", then I gave her a hug and kiss.
She takes a lot of tantrums in house as well but I just send her to her room until she has calmed down, her dad has been known to use naughty corner when she takes a tantrum and has even smacked her on occasion but I don't believe in smacking her and every time I have used naughty corner, I can't get her to stay on it.
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