So my 7 yr old ( and now my 4 yr old) always says "That's silly, right?" every time she does something she isn't supposed to do. In her old house she always equated being silly and funny as good things but here, when she does something she isn't supposed to do she hears "Quit being silly and do what you're supposed to do." This, of course, was before we realized the connotation she'd previously learned. So now she thinks it's "silly" to do all the wrong things. She laughs when she messes up and doesn't correct her behavior, no matter how stern we are or how much we tell her to the contrary. I have to literally get angry before she realizes that I'm upset. It's kinda driving me crazy. I don't want to get upset with her.