Ok, I've thought a lot about how to respond to this, so I'll just throw it out there.
Women have proven time and again from Biblical days that they cannot make decisions above man or against man's wishes and have them blessed. Women are more often led into spiritual error than men. We are more intuitive, but we need men's logic to balance us out. And when a woman rejects authority, it leaves us open to every false teacher out there.
Just a few examples....
Jeremiah 44 - Tells of the Israelites in Egypt. The women had started burning incense to other gods, thus leading their men into idolatry.
The story of Sarah and Abraham....She tried to solve the problem of her barrenness herself, despite the promise from God. Her actions of giving Hagar to Abram led to years and years of conflict between Arabs and Jews.
Now....it is no shame or no dishonor to be under authority. Jesus Christ himself is under authority of God. It also has nothing to do with a person's worth to God. He is not a respector of persons. He hears us females just as soon as he hears the men. Men can't feel "superior" because of this....
"For the man is not of the woman; but the woman of the man. Neither was the man created for the women; but the woman for the man....Nevertheless [lest a husband should strut himself unduly] neither is the man without the woman, neither the woman without the man, in the Lord. For as the woman is of the man, even so is the man also by the woman; but all things of God."
That being said, I do not view myself as weak, or inferior to my husband. We respectfully agree on things, but should he disagree and think it should be done this way, then I go his way. He is the head of my household. He makes the final decisions. And really, if your household is as it should be, then you and your spouse should be in agreement about nearly everything. Of course we have disagreements...but for the most part, we're in synch with each other.
Do I have a problem with worrying about him making the wrong decision when we don't agree? No. Because I know that he will be the one, as the spiritual head of the household, to take responsiblity in that.
Anyway. I really don't know if I made a lot of sense, and I know some of you don't believe the Bible like I do, or whatever, and I really don't wish to offend anyone. That's just my beliefs.