I have 2 boys, the youngest is 5 and the oldest is 8.
My oldest son doesn't talk much, if he's in the mood he will talk a little, but sometimes when I ask him a question he won't answer. For example today, I woke him up and told him to get up and get dressed. Once he got dressed, I told him to go brush his teeth, but he wouldn't go, I asked him if his teeth hurt or if the brush bothers him or something but he wouldn't say anything, he would just sit at the kitchen table.
I then tell him that we're running late and to hurry, but he just stood at the door, while I rushed to the car. When I get to the car, I look back and see him just standing there, so I go back and grab his hand and take him to the car. We finally arrive at school and he gets out of the car, but wouldn't walk up the stairs to the school's main entrance. I kept asking him if he needed something, if he had any problems in school, if he didn't want to go to school. He would just stand there and not say anything, so I told him I had to go and asked him if he's sure he doesn't want to tell me anything, so I just left, I saw that he started crying and I don't know if he actually walked into his school. There were some crossing guards and other school people there so I think they would have called me if he didn't go to school.
He has done this before. He would just shut down and not talk or answer to anybody. I don't know if he's just very shy or it's something else. This is not recent, he has done this for many years, but we didn't pay too much attention because we just thought he was just being shy and that he would grow out of it, but he's 8 and I don't see much improvement, he also still wets his bed most of the time.
My oldest son doesn't talk much, if he's in the mood he will talk a little, but sometimes when I ask him a question he won't answer. For example today, I woke him up and told him to get up and get dressed. Once he got dressed, I told him to go brush his teeth, but he wouldn't go, I asked him if his teeth hurt or if the brush bothers him or something but he wouldn't say anything, he would just sit at the kitchen table.
I then tell him that we're running late and to hurry, but he just stood at the door, while I rushed to the car. When I get to the car, I look back and see him just standing there, so I go back and grab his hand and take him to the car. We finally arrive at school and he gets out of the car, but wouldn't walk up the stairs to the school's main entrance. I kept asking him if he needed something, if he had any problems in school, if he didn't want to go to school. He would just stand there and not say anything, so I told him I had to go and asked him if he's sure he doesn't want to tell me anything, so I just left, I saw that he started crying and I don't know if he actually walked into his school. There were some crossing guards and other school people there so I think they would have called me if he didn't go to school.
He has done this before. He would just shut down and not talk or answer to anybody. I don't know if he's just very shy or it's something else. This is not recent, he has done this for many years, but we didn't pay too much attention because we just thought he was just being shy and that he would grow out of it, but he's 8 and I don't see much improvement, he also still wets his bed most of the time.