Hello,
My fiancee has a 6 year old child of her own and I have a 3 year old from my previous marriage. We have an amazing life together as a family but there are glaring issues.
We are at a loss because her child's father is a loser. The father is 25 years old, still lives with mom, has no job and has been known to sell weed. The father allows him to play xbox all weekend at visitation and do whatever he wants. This is a huge issue when he comes home and has time limits and bed times.
Also, he is an emotional wreck when he comes home. He has break downs for anything ranging from not waking up in time to play video games (he has a 40 minute max limit a day), too many choices for cereal to choose from, not being able to tie his shoe right the first time ect. The list goes on and on.
We do not know what to do. We are a very loving and positive family. Both children are great kids but we do not know how to handle the other parent and emotional problems. It is normal and acceptable to cry over certain things but to break down and cry three times in an hour before school over many cereal choices is ridiculous.
Any parenting ideas? For the record, his dad and "nanna" baby the crap out of him. Everything from cooking what he wants to letting him wear a raincoat while he plays soccer so he didn't get wet. Its getting too much.
Thanks.
My fiancee has a 6 year old child of her own and I have a 3 year old from my previous marriage. We have an amazing life together as a family but there are glaring issues.
We are at a loss because her child's father is a loser. The father is 25 years old, still lives with mom, has no job and has been known to sell weed. The father allows him to play xbox all weekend at visitation and do whatever he wants. This is a huge issue when he comes home and has time limits and bed times.
Also, he is an emotional wreck when he comes home. He has break downs for anything ranging from not waking up in time to play video games (he has a 40 minute max limit a day), too many choices for cereal to choose from, not being able to tie his shoe right the first time ect. The list goes on and on.
We do not know what to do. We are a very loving and positive family. Both children are great kids but we do not know how to handle the other parent and emotional problems. It is normal and acceptable to cry over certain things but to break down and cry three times in an hour before school over many cereal choices is ridiculous.
Any parenting ideas? For the record, his dad and "nanna" baby the crap out of him. Everything from cooking what he wants to letting him wear a raincoat while he plays soccer so he didn't get wet. Its getting too much.
Thanks.