I feel like a slave often, in my home. I do almost everything for my kids. I even feed them sometimes..otherwise they sometimes will not eat, or they take forever. I dress them most of the time to..becuase they take to long. I know these things are my fualt.
But it is so hard when your in a hurry and they are wasting time ect.
I wasnt riased well myself. My sister had bilima and my Mom used to beat her in front of me. My Dad used to wip us all with a belt. All of there 6 kids have many problems. One of my younger brothers has passed away at 30.
My Dad wouldnt listen to us, he screamed DONT TALK BACK..if we even tried to speak or explain ourselves when he was angery. I love both my parents..they were riased horriably , even worse than us and they didnt have the info extra that we have today.
So, needless to say I have to learn and practice how to riase kids properly into respondable adults. I love my kids very much.
They fight very often kicking extra..they hit me too, they have bit and pinched me, kicked me to. I try to put them in time outs, but I have to hold them while they try to free thereself...I have tried spanking, it doesnt help..they laugh or hit me. I'm done with that. I want them to love there selfes and others.
Now I do not want angery arguing or people putting others down extra in this thread please. I want to hear from anyone who belives they can help..I will listen and I will take what I think might help.
Thank you in advance.
Cathy
But it is so hard when your in a hurry and they are wasting time ect.
I wasnt riased well myself. My sister had bilima and my Mom used to beat her in front of me. My Dad used to wip us all with a belt. All of there 6 kids have many problems. One of my younger brothers has passed away at 30.
My Dad wouldnt listen to us, he screamed DONT TALK BACK..if we even tried to speak or explain ourselves when he was angery. I love both my parents..they were riased horriably , even worse than us and they didnt have the info extra that we have today.
So, needless to say I have to learn and practice how to riase kids properly into respondable adults. I love my kids very much.
They fight very often kicking extra..they hit me too, they have bit and pinched me, kicked me to. I try to put them in time outs, but I have to hold them while they try to free thereself...I have tried spanking, it doesnt help..they laugh or hit me. I'm done with that. I want them to love there selfes and others.
Now I do not want angery arguing or people putting others down extra in this thread please. I want to hear from anyone who belives they can help..I will listen and I will take what I think might help.
Thank you in advance.
Cathy