I am incredibly sad this morning. DW and I had a discussion, and she's all stressed about extra rehearsals for band, nevermind that I had a plan for how to take care of everything, getting kids to and from soccer tonight, but it's too stressful for her, so she said we need to talk about whether I really need to be at every rehearsal. Yes, I need to be at pretty much every fricken rehearsal. It's like asking if you really need all four wheels on a car, sure occasionally you can limp a few block on a flat or drive to a station with a donut spare, but pretty much you need all four tires.
She doesn't understand this world and it causes both of us stress, on top of the money stress, so I'm considering resigning from band, closing my internet accounts, quiting my fantasy football league, maybe getting a moonlighting job and seeing if I can fix some of my crappy life. I love my kids and I want them to be happy. I want to be happy with them. It just seems really obvious this morning that I need to simplify life. But I'm not an impulsive person. I'm contemplating, but it doesn't seem like scaling back and compromising makes much sense, it'll just rear it's ugly head later.
So, don't be surprised if I disappear. I'll drop a note before I do. But it seems like I'm headed that way.
She doesn't understand this world and it causes both of us stress, on top of the money stress, so I'm considering resigning from band, closing my internet accounts, quiting my fantasy football league, maybe getting a moonlighting job and seeing if I can fix some of my crappy life. I love my kids and I want them to be happy. I want to be happy with them. It just seems really obvious this morning that I need to simplify life. But I'm not an impulsive person. I'm contemplating, but it doesn't seem like scaling back and compromising makes much sense, it'll just rear it's ugly head later.
So, don't be surprised if I disappear. I'll drop a note before I do. But it seems like I'm headed that way.