It's actually kind of funny... Since I first posted on this topic I have done quite a lot of thinking about it. As I said in one of my previous posts, I was left home from the first grade on to get myself off to school, home from school, etc. This even included staying home all day during the summer while my mom worked long hours.
Anyway, I was an only child and although I had my share of friends growing up, I still spent a lot of time alone. Now, as an adult, I actually find that I prefer to spend my free time (when not occupied by my son of course) alone. Not that I don't enjoy company at times, but I just seem to feel more comfortable alone.
Just coming off of a divorce, I honestly can't ever see myself seeking another relationship since I don't mind being alone and I also see it being a pain in the you-know-what to try to not only find someone that I mesh with, but more importantly that my son will also mesh with. Maybe being along will get old after a while, but I really wonder if this is a flaw in my personality due to having to stay home alone. I like to consider myself a strong independent person, but sometimes I wonder if I shouldn't have had to go to a sitter just to have to engage with other kids. It definitely puts a different perspective on whether or not I will leave my son home alone any more.
I feel like I'm just rambling at this point so I'll end that here...
As far as coddling goes, I agree it is definitely better safe than sorry. A lot of times as parents I think we are all guilty of worrying about the what-if's that have about as much probability of happening as the world ending the next time that nut job in California predicts it.
The type of coddling that annoys me most is when parents cave in and give their kids rides to places that they can easily walk to safely, or do things for their kids that the kid should be doing. It's really no wonder that a lot of the jobs in America are going to people coming from south of the border. They don't mind actually WORKING. Many of our younger generation (mainly boys) are so lazy now that it will be a wonder if our country ever gets back on the right track. It starts with us as parents. We have to set the tone.
The unfortunate thing is those of us on this forum are the ones that actually want to raise our kids to grow up to be respectable members of our society or else we wouldn't be members of this forum. There are far too many parents out there that just don't care and that's just sad. I see so many parents so wrapped up messing with their phones while their kids do everything short of punching them in the crotch just to try to get their attention. I don't like the way things are heading. Between Facebook, Twitter and texting, parents are paying less and less attention to their kids. Although I may be guilty of leaving my kid home alone when maybe I shouldn't, the scary thing is that I think that I may actually be more aware of what he is doing when I'm not home than some of these parents are when they are home with their kids because they are so pre-occupied.
Anyway, enough ranting by me. I don't know how I ended up turning a discussion of leaving kids home alone to a rant about social media. Not a good thing to get myself worked up right before bedtime. Haha.