I will try to make this brief..
I have a great relationship with my children, all except my 5 year old son. I don't know what to do anymore. He is very mouthy, emotional, angry, and just plain hard to deal with. My husband and I have tried everything from taking away toys, putting him in the corner, ignoring, being supportive, back to putting him in the corner.
He and I, unfortunately have the same personality. Very strong willed and stubborn so we are constantly butting heads. If I ask him to do ANYTHING I get the "FINE" attitude from him and he stomps around. If I tell him to knock off the attitude he tells me that I'm a mean mom. He is starting to eat dinner in his room because it makes him eat faster (this will be after waiting for him to finish for 45 min to an hour). I'm to the point of avoidance. I hate it. I'm happy while he is away at pre-school; it's so much quieter and peaceful. My parents don't want to take him for weekends because he is too hard to deal with which makes me feel bad for him, but what more can I do but tell him that it's because of his behavior. I'm at a loss, I love him, but can't stand to be around him because it just causes too much tension. Anyone else dealing with this? I'm wondering if he has a personality disorder.
I have a great relationship with my children, all except my 5 year old son. I don't know what to do anymore. He is very mouthy, emotional, angry, and just plain hard to deal with. My husband and I have tried everything from taking away toys, putting him in the corner, ignoring, being supportive, back to putting him in the corner.
He and I, unfortunately have the same personality. Very strong willed and stubborn so we are constantly butting heads. If I ask him to do ANYTHING I get the "FINE" attitude from him and he stomps around. If I tell him to knock off the attitude he tells me that I'm a mean mom. He is starting to eat dinner in his room because it makes him eat faster (this will be after waiting for him to finish for 45 min to an hour). I'm to the point of avoidance. I hate it. I'm happy while he is away at pre-school; it's so much quieter and peaceful. My parents don't want to take him for weekends because he is too hard to deal with which makes me feel bad for him, but what more can I do but tell him that it's because of his behavior. I'm at a loss, I love him, but can't stand to be around him because it just causes too much tension. Anyone else dealing with this? I'm wondering if he has a personality disorder.