My oldest son is 11yrs old and has been asking more and more "personal" questions. Things that come up while watching t.v., or stuff like that. A while back, we were talking about the youngest Spears girl being pregnant and probably losing her show on one of the kids channels. Then the other day, something was on t.v. and the word sperm came up. That brought up questions about what it was and what it does. I tried to tell him as truthful as possible but without too much detail. I told him that it was something that the man produces to help make a baby. He asked if it was pee, and I said no, but come from the same hole. His reply was just a normal, Oh, ok! and that was that. I am wondering, though, about getting a book and being ready for if he comes to me, but I don't know if he would come to me without any encouragement. I thought about going to him and telling him that i've noticed he's had more questions lately, and if he has any more, at any time, to know he can come to me and not to be embarassed. Do you think 11 is to young to be having that kind of talk? Their grandma is 74 and thinks it is just horrible that when he asks these type of questions that I answer as truthfully as possible, but in this day and age i would rather he hear it from me and come to me with questions and to know that I will be honest and they can trust me. I know the day is coming, I guess i'm just not ready for my boys to grow up.:swoon: