right now we have the same routine to put my stepson to sleep,, we lays on the sofa and watches TV with us until he falls asleep,, then my husband carries him to his room,, which is fine, but now it's taking longer for him to fall asleep and my husband in fallin asleep first, im 6 months pregnant, so before i could help carry him to bed but now it's outta the question,, we usually lay him down around 8:30 and he will fall asleep around 9:30- 10:00 sometimes later,, last night he layed down at 8:30 and it was after 10 by the time he fell asleep there have been a few times where we have just put him in his room,, like if he wasn't sleepin by 10, i tell him, ok mommy and daddy have to work, give us kiss good night, i lay down for a lil while and sometimes he falls asleep on his own but there have been times where i had to leave him in his bed,, my question is,, is it wrong to stick him in his bed at around 9 hug and kiss him and then leave, or should i wait till he falls asleep ??? if my husband waits with him, then he'll end up fallin asleep then i have to wake him up and chances are im gonna wake up my son also.. i lay down sometimes but as a working mother, we all know that night time is the only time i get to clean house,, can someone please help ???