Ok I appologize if I'm not using this forum thing right....I have no clue how to do this I'm just looking to get other parents opinions on a situation I have. I am a mother of a 5 1/2 year old girl. My first and only child. I love her so much , anyways she just started school in Sept and went from being a child that got hit and bit and hurt at daycare from other kids to being the kid that hits her teacher and other students and lunch monitors, she don't listen to her teacher in class, even the reward system they have for her doesnt always work. Shes very smart knows what she has to do and receits it to me every morning. I know she understands but she just dont do it. Constantly out of her seat, backtalking the teacher, sayin NO which is her new fav word, even with me. and shes just getting worse. I take her to the store and she runs around wild, won't hold my hand, is distracted with any thing that catches her eye, she plays with toy phones in stores, grabs stuff off the shelves she actually wiped her nose on me and was kicking me in the checkout line to the poiint i put the items i was going to buy back on the shelf and walked out the store, shes acting out and i hate to see her this way. I ask her why she does it and she says she dont know, or just because, she told me the other day when I said it makes me sad and I cry if shes bad and she laughed at me and said she liked to see me cry. what did I do wrong or am I doing wrong I yell and it dont work, I put her in timeout it dont work I take away fav toys and eeven her tv priveleges, and I even went and took all her stuff out of her room but her bed and she just dont get it. And to make matters worse I went to the doc to see if he can reffer me to someone else to take her to and he said "kids will be kids they can all be bad your over annalyzing this, shes fine to me......etc" yet this man doesn't know my daughter and he had me crying b/c I was getting so angry that he wouldnt understand he said he was reffering her but i dont know if he even took the time to. Im sorry there no other kid in her class doing this, and shes already had an in school suspension I really dont know what to do or who to talk to b/c my mother is even getting annoyed with her granddaughter and its not fun anymore. she wants to cave and let her watch tv just b/c shes annoyed by her. I mean I have no support and I dont know what to do. I love her and want her to do good in school but dont know where to start I want it to all just be good it hurts to know that she is having problems in school and that shes giving me attitude all the days were together what could be wrong, any tips or help would be great i really just needed a shoulder to cry on again sorry if this wasn't where i was to write this , i really just know know if being a mom is always going to be this hard, im exhausted and frustrated but i love my child i may say mean things but never mean it i hope someone can shine some light on my issue thanks
a confused and concerned first time mom
a confused and concerned first time mom
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