I got the custody evaulators report today, and was stunned by what I read. This person is recommending that teh other party be granted custody. UNBELIEVABLE. I had to battle with him over getting him to show up for this weekend even!
When he refused to pick Ry up when I was at work last week - she's saying that's somehow MY fault. He refuses to pick the kid up from the sitters when I am at work and that's MY FAULT? That I am denying him access? what kind of crack is this woman smoking?
And I am "harassing" him when I ask if he's going to pick Ry up when he's late - but somehow, him calling me a prostitute and accussing me up putting Ry's child support payments up my nose (this is all said in the presence of the kids, mind you) is not a problem. The endless emails (that only stopped when I got a temporary restraining order) of F' you, you F' B' etc, etc are not a problem. (funny thing is - I haven't even gone out on a date, much less slept with anybody and he was teh one experimenting with drugs a few years ago, while I've never even smoked pot)
I am trying to "Control" things if I don't accomodate his demands to change teh schedule - yet it's not a problem that he's never once granted a reguest that I have made. Him refusing to pick him up from the sitters is apparently NOT a control game. All the times he threatened to terminate his parental rights is not a control game (just the fact he'd even say that says this man is not invested in being a parent.)
When he refused to pick Ry up when I was at work last week - she's saying that's somehow MY fault. He refuses to pick the kid up from the sitters when I am at work and that's MY FAULT? That I am denying him access? what kind of crack is this woman smoking?
And I am "harassing" him when I ask if he's going to pick Ry up when he's late - but somehow, him calling me a prostitute and accussing me up putting Ry's child support payments up my nose (this is all said in the presence of the kids, mind you) is not a problem. The endless emails (that only stopped when I got a temporary restraining order) of F' you, you F' B' etc, etc are not a problem. (funny thing is - I haven't even gone out on a date, much less slept with anybody and he was teh one experimenting with drugs a few years ago, while I've never even smoked pot)
I am trying to "Control" things if I don't accomodate his demands to change teh schedule - yet it's not a problem that he's never once granted a reguest that I have made. Him refusing to pick him up from the sitters is apparently NOT a control game. All the times he threatened to terminate his parental rights is not a control game (just the fact he'd even say that says this man is not invested in being a parent.)