good for you fo6. don't blame either one of ya'll for not wanting to take those kind of risks since you have an idea of how your wife would react to an anesthesia.
the few fellers we know that have had the snip snip done have (according to dh, they shouldn't be tellin' a lady this kind of stuff. lol) is that there is pain and lots of it along with swelling and so one, the basic side effects for such a procedure.
if i may speak frankly--you'd be out of it for a while there.
anyways, back to topic--wish i knew anything 'bout this stuff. but i don't. the one time i did try hormonal bc, it made me incredibly nausues --dang it! sick to my stomach all the time and didn't do it's job (the kiddos aint the result of that one. lol).. so uh uh. i didn't care for it. prevention is great but if it's going to add to the problems ya got then why bother? that aint to say what doesn't work for one won't work for another.
now if i understand this correctly that particular product you asked about is a hormonal bc right? has your wify ever used the hormonal bcs before? how well did her system respond to them? (no real need for an answer on those).
i'm thinkin' if the answers are yes, then it shouldn't be any worse than the other hormonal bcs that are on the market as long as you both are aware of all the risks and side affects that come with such things.
but if not, and ya'll aint too certain about her system's reaction to this kind of stuff and it's not going to bother you any to get the snip snip then ya'll might be better off with you taking the high road on this one.
?good luck? and i hope ya'll figure out the best with as little ?hardship? as possible.