And if it were to, would we simply throw our hands up and say "This happens every generation". "This is just natural progression."bssage said:Will it end with just flat out naked sex on the dance floor?
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And if it were to, would we simply throw our hands up and say "This happens every generation". "This is just natural progression."bssage said:Will it end with just flat out naked sex on the dance floor?
So, you have no comment on my last post directed towards you? Or did you just miss it? I was waiting for that one.cybele said:You guys mean you HAVEN'T had naked sex in the middle of a dancefloor during a Nicky Minaj song?
Well that's no way to live.
Well... Elvis may be a little far back. I was in the 80's and 90's and my Dad listened to me hum "Like a virgin.. whooo touched for the very first time.... " George Michaels "Lets talk about sex" and my ever favorite Prince and all of his nasty songs. Hard Rock videos were the rage and some of those lyrics and clothing choices had to make my Dad believe I was headed straight for hell. Who was it that sung, " When I think about you I touch myself" ? Whom ever it was.. I sang along with her loudly. I didn't end up a big hoe.umb24 said:Yes Elvis shocked and appalled some at the time, but if you're going to bring him into the discussion, then you must look at what he actually did, and compare that to what is going on now. Elvis IMO was suggestive yes, but he came from an era when people had a better sense of what was simply inappropriate and what was just plain overboard. Nobody seems to give a crap now. Apathy, apathy, apathy.
I was asking you to compare one to the other, and you're simply comparing how parents reactions to both have been similar. That doesn't address the facts about these songs referring to women with the b word, or talking about them in objectifying ways, or the dances being more provocative and more like stripper dancing being worse. That also doesn't make this okay, or give reason to brush it aside as if it's nothing.cybele said:Yes I saw it, and I disagree, I think context works well. Envelope pushng and all that jazz.
I kinda searched through the threads. Not sure what names I called you. But I will apologies just in case.umb24 said:though it seems you've already resorted to calling me names in the other thread.
Oh, for goodness sakes. Elvis, singing "You ain't nothing but a hound dog...crying all the time" while doing a little fully clothed hip-swinging was NOTHING like this:singledad said:I guess now we know what the parents of teenagers felt like when Elvis burst onto the scene in the late 50's...
And the parents in the 1800's, when the waltz came into fashion, and young girls wanted to dance with (GASP!) a man's arm around their waist...
I guess what I'm trying to say is that its nothing new, but its up to us as parents to help our children develop self-respect, and trust that this will stop them going too far.
Sorry. You can't make a comparison there.Courtesy of 2 Live Crew: (lyrics)
Bend over and spread em, girl
Show-w-w me those p**** pearls
Rub that a** and play with that c***
You know I like that freaky s***
I like the way you lick the champagne glass
It makes me wanna stick my d*** in your a**
How hard? Hard like a rock,
When you make that p**** pop!
Yeah, this. It's embarrassing.umb24 said:. Elvis IMO was suggestive yes, but he came from an era when people had a better sense of what was simply inappropriate and what was just plain overboard. Nobody seems to give a crap now. Apathy, apathy, apathy.
Yeah, probably.umb24 said:And if it were to, would we simply throw our hands up and say "This happens every generation". "This is just natural progression."
Thank you, Testing. That is my point. And lyrics like that are in so many songs now that girls are dancing to!Testing said:Oh, for goodness sakes. Elvis, singing "You ain't nothing but a hound dog...crying all the time" while doing a little fully clothed hip-swinging was NOTHING like this:
Sorry. You can't make a comparison there.
Given that I am an American, it could very well be that American culture is not as similar to Autstralian, Canadian, or other "western societies" in Europe like the UK. Maybe it is more raunchy and messed up than in those places. I'm just describing what I see around me personally. I guess I cannot speak for the entire world, but I just assumed that what was popular here, is popular there. Since you did bring up Elvis.cybele said:I can give you a longer reply tonight when I gethome from work and amnot typing on a phone, however, no I do not view it as huge deal. Music is not the only influence my children have, and they kniw it is purely entertainment, not reality.
I have also never witnessed any of my children dance like 'strippers' nor have I seen any kids here do it, I think that is a cultural difference between America nd Australia, that isn't seen as "cool" here, so I cannot comment on that.
The truth is every generation pushes the boundaries just a little further. The truth is, it is a natural progression. That is what happens in life. Things advance, things move forward. Some things for the best, other things are questionable.umb24 said:And if it were to, would we simply throw our hands up and say "This happens every generation". "This is just natural progression."
umb24 said:But that's the wrong context. See, that's what I can a fire blanket statement. That doesn't address the fact that the subject matter at hand is more vulgar, more coarse and more without bounds than before. The fact that young girls dance to songs that talk about them in terms of body parts and spew the b and the h word every other sentence. Simply saying "this happens every generation" is avoidant and apathetic.
No, saying this happens in every generation is the truth. Vulgarity and shock factor are determined by the era you live in. There was a time a woman wearing pants meant the devil himself was gonna snatch you up. now itis common place. Show an ankle and lordy you were surely going to hell. see, that is the context for that era. The context in our era is different because it is a different time and place.
Yes Elvis shocked and appalled some at the time, but if you're going to bring him into the discussion, then you must look at what he actually did, and compare that to what is going on now. Elvis IMO was suggestive yes, but he came from an era when people had a better sense of what was simply inappropriate and what was just plain overboard. Nobody seems to give a crap now. Apathy, apathy, apathy.
Did we know at the time of Elvis that he would be the legend he is today? Did we know that he would be the founding father of what we now know as rock 'n' roll?
No we didn't, we no more know what today's artist will be in the future, then we know whether or not aliens exist. We do not know where that is going to lead.
Right there, you are sassing me. Tell me this, if parents are unquestionably the biggest role models in a kids life, why am I nothing like my own parents?mom2many said:wow, you would have serious issue's with the music in my house...I'm talkin old school punk, hip-hop, rap, rock, metal..we don't discriminate.
Here's the kicker,I don't have children out killing other people. I don't have children out having sex in public places. I don't have children walking around looking like hookers, and gasp, they are normal productive members if society.
Music, dance, and even video games are a small aspect of a childs life. The biggest influence is the parent, they can make or break a child. The whole "we are ruining this country." or " video games, music and dance are ruining this country" is hog wash. Sorry..preach it to the choir.
That is not sass, that is a statement and a fact. Trust me, you would have an issue with the music I play in my house.umb24 said:Right there, you are sassing me. Tell me this, if parents are unquestionably the biggest role models in a kids life, why am I nothing like my own parents?
Anyways, I have no problem with that stuff. Because there IS music, dance, and video games out there that are tasteful, non-violent, non-vulgar, etc. They just tend to be the less popular alternatives. If you look beyond what the mainstream pushes at everybody, you'd find plenty of music in all of those genres that do not use sex or violence or swearing to get their messages across. You'd find videos games that are not all killing people. And you'd find dance that is not brain dead and mindlessly sexual.