I try not to think about this topic as I get mad about the mess. DH is...we'll say forgetful. He will open 2-3 pepsis in a day but only drink all of one. Leaves his xbox stuff all a mess on the cabinet next to the tv where you cant help but see it. He makes little notes for himself but then leaves them randomly around. I have a junk drawer, I keep mail I dont intend to do anything with, i let the trash in the bathrooms and my office over flow, and I get really agitated over toys in the hallway or any walkway of the house. I need a clean path from point a to point b anywhere in the house. Dont even get me started about what he has done to the car. UUgggg. A small animal could live for a week on the crumbs alone.