Ryan works all day but really so do I...he's an insurance agent so while he may be mentally tired when he gets home he is more than willing to help out with a few things around the house...Plus he's very aware that he can't do what I do everyday so he's more than happy to help. It's little things though...He takes out the trash, does the dishes after dinner, vaccumes the stairs for me cause I hate it, and puts away our clothes. He will also do just about anything else to help me out so I'm pretty lucky there. He gets up with the baby on the weekends, changes diapers, feeds him, helps me get the kids off to bed at night. He will basically do anything he feels like do but every little bit helps. when I don't need his help with anything he feels left out...it's pretty cute