Ok so Ashley my 13 year old daughter started having wetting issues about 2 months ago. Well at first I was calm about it and after about the second week of her having a wet bed every other night and a few day time accidents ,
I decided to shedule her a doctors apointment. We went to the apointment and the doctor concluded that Ashley's bladder is acting abnormaly because of puberty. He said that it will most likely be an issue that will go away with age and to just wait it out. We had two options either medicine or night time protection. But it turns out that the only bed wetting medication that they had would end up interfering with another med she was already taking. So we chose the protection instead.
We came back from the doctors apointment and later that night when I went out to get groceries I picked up some diapers for her. Well when I got home I called her down and she just looked at the diapers and she completely flips out! I mean like she was throwing a grade A fit. She yelled at me "I aint wearin no G%$ D#%@ diapers" and then she ran up to her room crying. Now I understand just how embarrasing this is for my Ashley and I cant even begin to imagine how she feels right now. But she really needs the protection and her room is starting to smell of urine and her matress is almost ruined by now. So I gave her the night to chill out and rest from last nights outburst. So I walk into her room and as usual her sheets are wet. She awakens and I can see the embarasment burning in her eyes, It made me feel like S#^t.
I tried once again talking to her calmy about the diapers and she still will not budge, by now I was thinking that maybe she just needs some time for the idea to grow on her. So I give her some more time to think about it over the course of the next two days and I finally ask her again. She still will not budge! Now by this point her room smells awful and I feel like I should just go in and change her into that diaper myself!
Ughh I dont know what to do I love her and only want the best for her. : (
I decided to shedule her a doctors apointment. We went to the apointment and the doctor concluded that Ashley's bladder is acting abnormaly because of puberty. He said that it will most likely be an issue that will go away with age and to just wait it out. We had two options either medicine or night time protection. But it turns out that the only bed wetting medication that they had would end up interfering with another med she was already taking. So we chose the protection instead.
We came back from the doctors apointment and later that night when I went out to get groceries I picked up some diapers for her. Well when I got home I called her down and she just looked at the diapers and she completely flips out! I mean like she was throwing a grade A fit. She yelled at me "I aint wearin no G%$ D#%@ diapers" and then she ran up to her room crying. Now I understand just how embarrasing this is for my Ashley and I cant even begin to imagine how she feels right now. But she really needs the protection and her room is starting to smell of urine and her matress is almost ruined by now. So I gave her the night to chill out and rest from last nights outburst. So I walk into her room and as usual her sheets are wet. She awakens and I can see the embarasment burning in her eyes, It made me feel like S#^t.
I tried once again talking to her calmy about the diapers and she still will not budge, by now I was thinking that maybe she just needs some time for the idea to grow on her. So I give her some more time to think about it over the course of the next two days and I finally ask her again. She still will not budge! Now by this point her room smells awful and I feel like I should just go in and change her into that diaper myself!
Ughh I dont know what to do I love her and only want the best for her. : (