This may seem silly compared to some other debates but it's actually something causing a bit of an argument in our household.
First some background. When I grew up my mother always put my clothes away. I'm recently unemployed, so I've started taking over some of the household tasks including laundry. (Except my wife's laundry which she insists on doing herself.) I have a 21-year-old son, a 19-year-old daughter and a 13-year old daughter. I realize that ideally kids should put away their own laundry but sometimes I find it easier to put it into their drawers, especially with my son. My 19-year-old always puts away her own laundry so I leave it to her. My 13-year-old is probably half and half -- sometimes it's just easier if I have some t-shirts to put them in the appropriate drawer.
So here's the question -- how off limit are kids rooms? My son gets very angry when I put his clothes away and my wife tells me that putting the children's clothes away is an invasion of their privacy. By the way, I'm not a snoop; I'm simply putting clothes away. I find if it's not put away, it ends up on the floor, ground into the dirty clothes and I probably end up rewashing clean clothes. It's sometimes just easier.
So particularly you mom's who do laundry (or dad's if applicable) I need your advice. Do you ever put your kids clothes away? Is it wrong to do so, or could this argument have something to do with me taking over an nontraditional role?
First some background. When I grew up my mother always put my clothes away. I'm recently unemployed, so I've started taking over some of the household tasks including laundry. (Except my wife's laundry which she insists on doing herself.) I have a 21-year-old son, a 19-year-old daughter and a 13-year old daughter. I realize that ideally kids should put away their own laundry but sometimes I find it easier to put it into their drawers, especially with my son. My 19-year-old always puts away her own laundry so I leave it to her. My 13-year-old is probably half and half -- sometimes it's just easier if I have some t-shirts to put them in the appropriate drawer.
So here's the question -- how off limit are kids rooms? My son gets very angry when I put his clothes away and my wife tells me that putting the children's clothes away is an invasion of their privacy. By the way, I'm not a snoop; I'm simply putting clothes away. I find if it's not put away, it ends up on the floor, ground into the dirty clothes and I probably end up rewashing clean clothes. It's sometimes just easier.
So particularly you mom's who do laundry (or dad's if applicable) I need your advice. Do you ever put your kids clothes away? Is it wrong to do so, or could this argument have something to do with me taking over an nontraditional role?