What are you so angry about. I said earlier that I didn't want to make her look bad to justify my EMOTIONS and FEELINGS. I wanted advice as to why I was feeling that way and if I should. You took it to another level. Now that mainly just you is going off on me then yeah, i'll add that stuff to show you there's more to it. I don't like being talked down to by someone I don't even know. I came here looking for fellow mothers who could offer some insight and support. I don't agree with everything everyone feels and says in the world but I sure as hell don't just look at that and talk down to them like they have no feelings. How would you like it if I got onto all the posts you've ever written about how badly you ex treated/treats you or your posts about losing someone and disreguarded your feelings and told you to get over it? Forums are for support, not for bashing people. And who gives a rats ass about your little ratings and reputation. I know I don't. You are being childish and directing anger towards me because of your own issues. I never said anything to you to hurt you, so please just drop it.budnkota said:That's funny, Lissa - because there's a whole lot of positive comments on my CP. Only one who's had an issue is you - and now Alikat, who apparently doesn't realize her own snarkyness. (yeah- there's probably a children's book about THAT too)
I call it like I see it. and this is just not adding up. If her concern was really what she's now saying, why was that not mentioned at the start? She did plenty of complaining about everything else the MIL did. Even the name of the thread indicated jealousy that hers wasn't #1. So why leave out this new stuff... the ONE thing that could have SOME justification for concern?
It looks to me like she was surprised by the overriding opinion that she was being ridiculous and had to change it up to sound more reasonable.
maybe a run for office would be in order? Could be your calling!
I'm not perfect and I can admit it. I have a heart too.