16th ave - You're not making any sense. You don't have to get so defensive because we disagree with something that you clearly do (smoke around your kids). It's not good for them, and you need to accept that. However, you can still do it if you want to, because they're your kids and that's your choice and your problem. But you can't do it around other people's kids, because they are not yours and people don't want that crap around their kids because in this day and age, we know better. Don't get mad at us, it's really just the facts. You're just pointing your finger at something else that sucks, but you're really getting off topic. We're not talking about drinking, but yeah sure drinking sucks around kids. But people drink around kids FAR FAR less than they smoke around them. Tons of people smoke around their kids. Not as many people would drink around them on purpose.
Public displays of drunkeness (unless at a bar and such where it belongs) ARE ILLEGAL. Driving while drunk, and especially hitting someone, IS ILLEGAL. And also, that's called an ACCIDENT. Smoking around nonsmokers is done on purpose. More people by FAR die from second hand smoke (which you seem to think is harmless) than by getting hit by drunk drivers every year. So you're really just proving my points by continuing on about all this, in that smoking around nonsmokers is not okay.
People tend to argue that smoking is more harmless than drinking around kids because it doesn't kill anybody RIGHT NOW. It happens later. You'll never see in the news "OMG somebody smoked a cigarette next to my kid and he dropped dead!!" "Person dies in sleep because they smoked too many cigarettes!!" But it's very shallow minded not to take into consideration that smoking kills you and others around you EVENTUALLY and can easily affect the health of your children in a negative way. I already posted some links with the statistics on deaths per year for smokers and for people exposed to second hand smoke. The numbers are phenomenal, and you should really take a look because you are not taking the damaging affects of cigarette smoke seriously enough. Just because it doesn't kill you or your kids right now, doesn't mean it doesn't kill. It does its job slowly, but surely. THESE ARE FACTS, NOT OPINIONS.
And none of us have mentioned the smell, which you keep talking about. All we've been discussing are the serious things involved in second hand smoke, like health factors and death statistics. There's no reason to throw that around just to make it look like it's no big deal. The smell is no big deal. Kids getting asthma and hundreds of thousands of people dying every year due to second hand smoke, is serious.
And.... I've never seen anyone drunk at a flea market?? :/ Who hangs out at the flea market anyway? Seriously??
I like how you mention that YOU smoking doesn't bother YOU. Well, do you wonder about your kids? I grew up with a parent that smoked and I COULDN'T STAND IT. I have VIVID memories of my mom smoking around me, and holding my breath or hiding my face in my shirt or under the blanket if we were in bed. I always hated NOT ONLY THE SMELL, but the FEELING of the smoke in my nose and throat. You don't know what its like as a smoker, but for a nonsmoker and ESPECIALLY a child, it hurts! It is VERY uncomfortable, I am telling you this from experience! I couldn't stand it. BF also shares the same vivid type of memories with me, of his mom smoking in the car with him and how he choked over it and absolutely hated it, the smell and feeling of breathing it in. Second hand smoke made us very unhappy and uncomfortable as children. I have asthma because of it.
All the stuff you mentioned about drunks hurting people, that's all illegal. The stuff that involves smoking hurting people, should then be equally illegal since you compare them this way. Point made!!
Alcohol poisoning could kill you and isn't illegal, but smoking can and is likely to kill you and is also not illegal, so no contest there.