Son's Fiance Chooses What He Wears - Is It Ok For Me To Be Concerned Slightly ?
So you are mostly aware that my girlfriend has been in a controlling relationship with a boy for a while. BF has tried to phase us out of her lives many times and the changes in our daughter are obvious. Her clothes have changed from typical teen wear to a more classic conservative clothing. We are still in her life fortunately , but its getting harder as she has moved in with him. My Oldest son has been engaged for some time now. Although they have no plans to get married soon as they are saving up for the perfect wedding in the future. Recently however , i have seen numourous changes in my sons fashion. Now i know you might be thinking im a bit to paranoid about this , but seeing what my teenage daughter has become , i cant help but think my oldest son is going down the same path.
My son dressed fine and very smart. He loved jeans , label shirts , boxers , baseball caps and used hair gel. When he met his fiance , he continued to dress like that and she never had a problem with that. However recently , i have noticed weird changes in what he wears whenever his fiance is around.
Firstly , he doesnt wear jeans anymore , but tracksuit bottoms. Mostly grey ones and really dont look good on him. He now wears knitted sweaters and cardigans which made him look quite cheap. He also told me that he has switched to Y Fronts because his fiance wanted to spice up the bedroom and then wanted him to wear them full time as they looked sexy on his behind. He didnt want to , but she kept buying them for her and ended up binning his boxers (By accident). He then gave up and resorted to wear them for her. He wears the baseball caps still , but doesnt wear hair gel anymore and recently got his hair cut.
I cant help thinking that My Son's fiance is subtly trying to change him. I wont say controlling because i dont think she is. She is dead wonderful to my son and treats him like a person rather than a child which is how my daughter's bf treats my daughter. However with how my daughter changed , i cant help seeing the dress sense in my son change and help thinking that somehow his fiance is trying to change him in a way. Let me know if you think i'm exaggerating , but im quite paranoid that this could happen all over again with my oldest son.
My Son has never been in a relationship which he has felt uncomfortable , but after telling me what she did to him with The Briefs & Boxers , its perculiar to see if my son's fiance isnt who she seems. But maybe i am exxagerating. I do welcome comments & advice even if they are saying i'm mad or a bit out there , but i love my children and only want them to be safe. I welcome the comments and i thank everyone who has given me advice over the months that you have heard me and my problems. I have never felt so happier on this fourm.
Thank you.
So you are mostly aware that my girlfriend has been in a controlling relationship with a boy for a while. BF has tried to phase us out of her lives many times and the changes in our daughter are obvious. Her clothes have changed from typical teen wear to a more classic conservative clothing. We are still in her life fortunately , but its getting harder as she has moved in with him. My Oldest son has been engaged for some time now. Although they have no plans to get married soon as they are saving up for the perfect wedding in the future. Recently however , i have seen numourous changes in my sons fashion. Now i know you might be thinking im a bit to paranoid about this , but seeing what my teenage daughter has become , i cant help but think my oldest son is going down the same path.
My son dressed fine and very smart. He loved jeans , label shirts , boxers , baseball caps and used hair gel. When he met his fiance , he continued to dress like that and she never had a problem with that. However recently , i have noticed weird changes in what he wears whenever his fiance is around.
Firstly , he doesnt wear jeans anymore , but tracksuit bottoms. Mostly grey ones and really dont look good on him. He now wears knitted sweaters and cardigans which made him look quite cheap. He also told me that he has switched to Y Fronts because his fiance wanted to spice up the bedroom and then wanted him to wear them full time as they looked sexy on his behind. He didnt want to , but she kept buying them for her and ended up binning his boxers (By accident). He then gave up and resorted to wear them for her. He wears the baseball caps still , but doesnt wear hair gel anymore and recently got his hair cut.
I cant help thinking that My Son's fiance is subtly trying to change him. I wont say controlling because i dont think she is. She is dead wonderful to my son and treats him like a person rather than a child which is how my daughter's bf treats my daughter. However with how my daughter changed , i cant help seeing the dress sense in my son change and help thinking that somehow his fiance is trying to change him in a way. Let me know if you think i'm exaggerating , but im quite paranoid that this could happen all over again with my oldest son.
My Son has never been in a relationship which he has felt uncomfortable , but after telling me what she did to him with The Briefs & Boxers , its perculiar to see if my son's fiance isnt who she seems. But maybe i am exxagerating. I do welcome comments & advice even if they are saying i'm mad or a bit out there , but i love my children and only want them to be safe. I welcome the comments and i thank everyone who has given me advice over the months that you have heard me and my problems. I have never felt so happier on this fourm.
Thank you.