firstly guys, sorry i have been away for a while. i had a tough time after the miss carriage and i with drew from the forum a bit and if i am being honest i withdrew from life but then i remembered i have two amazing children who need a happy mummy who loves them and i started to do things again and be happy again and then i guess things got really good and i didn't really have to ask for help for a while..
now to the problem at hand.
David has asked me if he and Courtney (the New girlfriend) can take the kids out of the country for a month. Felix just turned 3 and Alegra is 2 in March...
i think that a month is too long to be away from me at this age. David says that they are his kids too and he has the right to take them to America to see his mother (their grandmother) which i do agree with but they stay with me all week and see him on Sundays and mondays and then are back with me throughout the week. i think that this is their routine and to take them away from me for an entire month would not be healthy for them and wouldn't benefit them at all.
because David and i do not actually have a custody agreement there is no legal reason he can't take them is there? and i don't really want to take this to court because he is finally becoming a real part of their life and seeing them every week instead of just every now and then so i don't want to make him withdraw from them again but i don't want him to take them all the way to America for a month either... what do i do?
now to the problem at hand.
David has asked me if he and Courtney (the New girlfriend) can take the kids out of the country for a month. Felix just turned 3 and Alegra is 2 in March...
i think that a month is too long to be away from me at this age. David says that they are his kids too and he has the right to take them to America to see his mother (their grandmother) which i do agree with but they stay with me all week and see him on Sundays and mondays and then are back with me throughout the week. i think that this is their routine and to take them away from me for an entire month would not be healthy for them and wouldn't benefit them at all.
because David and i do not actually have a custody agreement there is no legal reason he can't take them is there? and i don't really want to take this to court because he is finally becoming a real part of their life and seeing them every week instead of just every now and then so i don't want to make him withdraw from them again but i don't want him to take them all the way to America for a month either... what do i do?