trust me i have been up at night i have been tossing and turning with this decision but at the end of the day neither of us actually has "custody" of the children so i technically have no right not to.
he has been at me for a while to do this, and Xero trust me i don't really want to do this but his mum is quite unwell. probably not in a way that would prevent her from coming here but it is in a "just incase" thing. she has breast cancer but is quite a religious woman and has refused to be treated for it so David wants to take them over there to see their grandmother one last time (we both agree that the power of prayer is EXTREMELY unlikely to cure cancer)
(i know that i probably should have entered this into the initial post but it didn't really seem too important because the question was more "as a parent would you let your ex spouse do this" thing. i didn't want clouded opinions based on pity lol. i know that sounds bad but it isnt meant to)
i know that it will be hard both for me and my children to do this and i am not 100% decided yet i am talking to my lawyer first just to make sure there aren't more problems that could occur considering David's past. this isn't something i should do but it is something i feel like i SHOULD do if you get where i am coming from.
he has been at me for a while to do this, and Xero trust me i don't really want to do this but his mum is quite unwell. probably not in a way that would prevent her from coming here but it is in a "just incase" thing. she has breast cancer but is quite a religious woman and has refused to be treated for it so David wants to take them over there to see their grandmother one last time (we both agree that the power of prayer is EXTREMELY unlikely to cure cancer)
(i know that i probably should have entered this into the initial post but it didn't really seem too important because the question was more "as a parent would you let your ex spouse do this" thing. i didn't want clouded opinions based on pity lol. i know that sounds bad but it isnt meant to)
i know that it will be hard both for me and my children to do this and i am not 100% decided yet i am talking to my lawyer first just to make sure there aren't more problems that could occur considering David's past. this isn't something i should do but it is something i feel like i SHOULD do if you get where i am coming from.