BrokenHearted, I completely agree with you. I think you made all the right choices. TabascoNatalie unfortunately has an issue with disagreeing with people too forcefully. Natalie, this mom is clearly protecting and loving her daughter in the way she knows best. You are NOT there to see the actual situation, and you are downright criticizing this person for "caring" about their own child. You have put your two cents in, enough with the harrassment. She was describing her situation, not asking for negative opinions on it.
I completely agree with what Dadu said. I don't think this person looks like a troll, and I don't think she said anything crazy. I completely agree with everything she said. Her daughter is lucky she has a parent involved enough to watch out for her. Some kids don't get that. She see's what kind of mistakes can be made between a boy who is an adult and a girl who is only an impressionable child and she doesn't want that to happen to her daughter. You can blame her?? I can see how some people may disagree with her methods, BUT there is nothing bad about what she's doing or the way she is thinking. Everyone parents differently, period. That needs to be accepted here, considering it is a PARENTING forum.
Its good to give your kids the freedom that they can work with, but if they can't handle it, then they can't have it. Yes, there will be other boys, but hopefully she'll be older and more responsible by then, and I think every mother hopes for that. The moms that don't give a crap and that think their teenagers will "do as they please" because "teenage rebellion is natural" and "they're PRACTICALLY adults" are the ones that tend to end up with pregnant 14 yr olds with chlamydia. Not for SURE, but I'd rather be safe than sorry. I'm sure she can get a boy her own age. No matter who you fall in love with, because of the infinate amounts of other people out there, chances are there is SOMEONE out there that is more meant for you than the person you're with. Teens think they know about love. THINK.