I only have a step son right now and no biological children of my own, however I plan to become a foster parent when my states restrictions allow.
I am wondering (because I have VERY strong opinions about the subject of video games) if it is innapropriate to tell other parents that if my child/step child is allowed to play <SIZE size="75">(or watch anyone play!!)</SIZE> anything over E/watch anything over PG at their house he/she will no longer be allowed to go over.
I have been told that I would be considered "over-bearing," "un-flexible," "unreasonable" or "too strict."
It also leads to a secondary worry, other than my childrens' freinds' parents disliking me. What if they decided to let the children play/watch the disallowed content and just not tell me! or even worse, tell my children/their friend to lie to me and tell me they didn't! (I hope no one tells me this is a rediculous concern, my step-son's mother does this constantly)
So I really have two questions:
1. Does anyone beleive this is an unreasonable request to make of other parents?
2. Does anyone believe that this may invite more problems (Parents disliking me, parents and children possibly lying) than it would solve?
I would never WANT to tell my child they weren't allowed at someone's house, but I feel it's nessesary for my children's best interests.
I am wondering (because I have VERY strong opinions about the subject of video games) if it is innapropriate to tell other parents that if my child/step child is allowed to play <SIZE size="75">(or watch anyone play!!)</SIZE> anything over E/watch anything over PG at their house he/she will no longer be allowed to go over.
I have been told that I would be considered "over-bearing," "un-flexible," "unreasonable" or "too strict."
It also leads to a secondary worry, other than my childrens' freinds' parents disliking me. What if they decided to let the children play/watch the disallowed content and just not tell me! or even worse, tell my children/their friend to lie to me and tell me they didn't! (I hope no one tells me this is a rediculous concern, my step-son's mother does this constantly)
So I really have two questions:
1. Does anyone beleive this is an unreasonable request to make of other parents?
2. Does anyone believe that this may invite more problems (Parents disliking me, parents and children possibly lying) than it would solve?
I would never WANT to tell my child they weren't allowed at someone's house, but I feel it's nessesary for my children's best interests.