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    5 yr old boy, can you suggest : How to be himself...

    yes, i just took him out of the play routine for a change yesterday all together, took him bike and scrottering, my son wanted to go back, i said maybe tomorrow for a bit, and maybe tonight we figure something else to do maybe go out for dinner, we ARE minimizing the time , but afarid that kid...
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    5 yr old boy, can you suggest : How to be himself...

    thats exactly i dont want my kids to grow up to be, i was unable to be independent for a long time until i am in the early twenties because my mom would take care alot of my issues, the hard part is to find that good blanace between when to tighen and loose the standards
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    5 yr old boy, can you suggest : How to be himself...

    mom (my wife) is the one watch all the kids most of the time, i was saying other parents are not watch theirs, my girl just barely crowing so we perferr she play within the house so i am usually the one that stay home with her while they are outside, and believe me my girl requires me to...
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    5 yr old boy, can you suggest : How to be himself...

    i am definitely not relaxing after got home from work, some times i take my boy to bicycling after work and to the park, just lately he preferred to play with the neighborhood kids, in that case if you guys dont think we should leave with the bad kids, should i just force him to go do things...
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    5 yr old boy, can you suggest : How to be himself...

    Thanks for the advise, so you saying we are not spend enugh time with they is that simple ?? we will get him out that play environment right away then its not that we dont want to spend the money for his school, just the school option we have sucks right now, not sure my reputation on this...
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    5 yr old boy, can you suggest : How to be himself...

    How to be himself Hi All: I am wondering if you can provide us with some advise on how to deal with child at this age I have a boy of 5 years old named Chris and a girl just turned 1 , they both have the birthday on the same month two weeks ago, for the last three month, my boy is home on a...
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    my 4 and half year old wont stop screaming...

    what is a Behavior charts thanks
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    my 4 and half year old wont stop screaming...

    Hi All: I dont know if we are expecting too much from my 4 and half yr old son, but it seems more and more frequently he does not listen and intentionally do things he know he is not suppose to do (ie. walking around when he suppose to be at the dinner table eating dinner for no reason other...
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    difficult spouse question...

    sorry blacked out for a while just getting back, thanks for all your posts and I will read them over and get back with you
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    difficult spouse question...

    Hi All: first time coming back to this forums after a while , parenting is going good, think there is a more issue with us as the wife and the husband than actual parenting, but being parents have alot to do with the issue, so they do inter relate I am not sure if this place is for this kind of...