I'm also a Methodist. We don't have synods in our denomination. Our church is part of the West Ohio Conference, which is part of the National Conference. We have two Sunday morning services, with Sunday school class in between. We used to have a contemporary service on Thursday nights, but it never really caught on, so it's been shelved for now.
Actually, that's Pentecostals, not Southern Baptist. I grew up as a Baptodist (Methodist and Southern Baptist), and never saw/heard anyone speaking in tongues.
Speaking in tongues IS speaking in a real language...it's just a language that you have never had any ability to speak in. You might suddenly start speaking in Hebrew or Greek or Farsi or Portugese....any language there is, that you've never had the ability to speak in previously. And then, if it truly comes from God, there will be someone else there who will be given the ability to translate what you say.
I made sure my three were exposed to other belief systems during their teen years. I would prefer for them to be Christians, but I want them to make an INFORMED choice, not just to be a Christian because it's the only thing they know. I became a Christian originally just because it was expected of me, and found myself with a LOT of questions during my college years...I explored a lot of other paths during that time. I did come back to Christianity eventually, but I would rather have explored the other paths FIRST.