Theres an idea, imagine you have kids.
What would your reaction be to your 20 yr old doughter coming along and setting rules for you and her younger sibling to abide by?
I sure as hell know that the rules that Lily lives by do not come from Rebekah, and they never will, because she's her sister, not her mother, thats me. And no I would never hand my car keys over to Bek because she discided that im not allowed to drive anymore, and what I drink is none of her buisness quite frankly.
And you know what, the things youre offering to do are really nothing things, grocery shopping isnt a big huge "oh my god big burden" task. I thought you said that your grandmother pays the bills? Plus you have no money to pay the bills with because you have no job, cleaning house, again, has to be done but not huge (plus I think that if youre 20 and still mooching off mummy you should be pulling your weight in the cleaning department in the first place)
The fact that you feel the need to take over such meaningless tasks to make things easier proves that youre in no way understanding what it means to run a household. You want to make things easier for your mother? Quit being a whiney brat, go get a job, get your ass out of her house and leave her be.
What would your reaction be to your 20 yr old doughter coming along and setting rules for you and her younger sibling to abide by?
I sure as hell know that the rules that Lily lives by do not come from Rebekah, and they never will, because she's her sister, not her mother, thats me. And no I would never hand my car keys over to Bek because she discided that im not allowed to drive anymore, and what I drink is none of her buisness quite frankly.
And you know what, the things youre offering to do are really nothing things, grocery shopping isnt a big huge "oh my god big burden" task. I thought you said that your grandmother pays the bills? Plus you have no money to pay the bills with because you have no job, cleaning house, again, has to be done but not huge (plus I think that if youre 20 and still mooching off mummy you should be pulling your weight in the cleaning department in the first place)
The fact that you feel the need to take over such meaningless tasks to make things easier proves that youre in no way understanding what it means to run a household. You want to make things easier for your mother? Quit being a whiney brat, go get a job, get your ass out of her house and leave her be.