You spelled it right.
AKA "The Big Guy" "The Brown Man" "Big Daddy Love Muffin" oh and "Boss"
If it makes you feel any better, PF isn't going through something abnormal. I lot of forums go through these kinda of swings before finding the middle ground.
Fallon made a really great thread on the rules. But to give you cliff notes on it: Don't Be a Craphead. Seriously, that's what it boils down to.
I have zero problem whatsoever with you saying "Hey, Sirk. Why you did dat?" The problem comes in when it's "RAWR YOU SUCK AND EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU SUCKS I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU DID THAT AND I HATE YOU AND YOUR FACE AND YOU'RE STUPID AND..."
You can call me all those things in AIM or PM with your friends. But on the forum, we have to pretend we're grownups. Ask yourself if you would want someone to ask you a question in the tone you're using. Would you let your kids talk to you in said tone.
No need to get mad about stuff. It's the internet. If you find yourself getting mad, sign off, tickle a kid, come back and finish your message. People will respond a LOT better to a possitive or neutral tone than an accusing one. This includes users as well as mods.
Did that clear things up?