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jtee

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Posting Guidelines for ParentingForums.org
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1. Treat other parents with dignity and respect. Personal attacks, hate speech, racist or sexist attacks, sexual harassment, lude sexual comments, is completely unacceptable.

No attacking other members through posts on the board, email or private messages. We do not allow name calling, harassment or personal insults. You may express opposing view points but we want our members to feel safe from abuse. Please take the time to read your posts before you hit the post button and make sure that your posts are worded in a respectful nature. Posts that are not respectful, rude or insulting to other members will be removed

2. Do not post any content that would be inappropriate for children. No graphic language, nude or sexually explicit images. Adult conversations about sex are acceptable as long as people are mindful to use proper terms (no "f" words, etc.) and not to go into graphic descriptions of sex acts. (PG-13)

No posting of links to pornographic material. We do not allow pictures or links to pictures with nudity. (Exclusions include pictures of birth stories or pictures for educational purposes, must have prior approval from a moderator before posting).

3. No posting just to incite, taunt, mock, insult, attack, etc other parents. (aka "trolling") Trolling is an art form in itself, those who are extremely good at trolling will turn it on/off. They might post fully acceptable comments 80% of the time, but 20% of their posts are crafted to cause problems for individuals and the forum.

4. No posting just to advertise products, services, or other websites. While it is OK to have a link to your website in your signature line, affiliate links and paid posting are not allowed. If it is determined that your posts appear to be solely for the purpose of advertising, they will be deleted and the account will be banned. To avoid coming across as a spammer, make sure you post quality, relevant feedback for discussions. Spammers usually write one or two really general statements that could apply to most people's situations.

5. Be supportive and helpful to other parents. If a new parent comes here asking for support or help, the atmosphere needs to be a place where parents feel the forum is safe &amp; friendly. Even if you personally think a problem posted is fake, either treat it as a hypothetical problem or ignore it. Do not challenge the new parent as if this a debate forum.

6. No duplicate posts. Please don't post the same thing in more than one place.

7. No Misuse of the Reputation system. When giving out reputation it must be for justified reasons. When giving out bad reputation the reasons must be acceptable to the moderators. There are many ways the rep system can be misused to cause problems for the forum and we shall not publicly discuss how it has been misused in the past.

8. Posting copyrighted material. If you have not personally written or created what is posted then do not post it. You can post links to articles or information.

9. No posting of hostile comments about moderators or administrators. ParentingForums.org does not permit the insulting or antagonizing the moderation team. If you disagree with a moderation decision, you may send a respectful private message or email to one or all the moderators expressing your concerns.

Moderators are in a position to look out for the long term interest of a forum, and this occasionally requires them to privately or publicly take unpopular actions. They are not always free to publicly disclose the details of actions that have been taken.

10. CrowdGather.com. The owners of this forum have a variety of forums to complement ParentingForums.org. Those forums have their own set of guidelines, and some of them allow a far greater latitude in what is considered acceptable than what is permited here. If you feel a need at times to express yourself in ways outside of this forum parenting guidelines, check out one of the Crowdgathers's adult forums: CrowdGather Communities

Have a great day!
 

jtee

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Tell me what you think? What would you like to add or change?

Thanks
 

Kaytee

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from just mommmies

Post links to pornographic material. We do not allow pictures or links to pictures with nudity. (Exclusions include pictures of birth stories or pictures for educational purposes, must have prior approval from a moderator before posting).
Attack other members through posts on the board, email or private messages. We do not allow name calling, harassment or personal insults. You may express opposing view points but we want our members to feel safe from abuse. Please take the time to read your posts before you hit the post button and make sure that your posts are worded in a respectful nature. Posts that are not respectful, rude or insulting to other members will be removed.
 

Kaytee

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Post “mod/admin bashing” topics. Any topics insulting or antagonizing the moderation team at Justmommies will be deleted. If you disagree with a moderation decision, you may send a respectful private message or email to an administrator expressing your concerns. If you choose to send profanity, personal insults, or any other abusive messages to an administrator or moderator your account will be permanently banned from Justmommies. Justmommies is a friendly community and we will not tolerate abuse of our staff.
and another one
 

Kaytee

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Post copyrighted material. If you have no personally written or created what is posted then do not post it. You can post links to articles or information.
we can get in trouble for htis one
 

Kaytee

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When posting be aware that this is a public forum. Do not post personal information about yourself. If for some reason a member should choose to delete their account from Justmommies or their member account is banned from Justmommies, we will not be responsible for removing any pictures, posts, or other personal information from the forums.
a good one for some specific members
 

Kaytee

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and this one too lol
Justmommies reserves the right to suspend members’ accounts who repeatedly violate our terms of service and to immediately discontinue, suspend, terminate or block users’ access to this site at any time.
 

Kaytee

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we need them done and posted! We then need to post it as a sticky and also say that these rules will be applied NOW and no exceptions even for the regulars
 

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if you guys think it would be best I can post them...that way nobody thinks jtee is picking on anyone. I've gooten so many PMs today about stupid shit, I'd like to see these in place before I go out of town if that's OK with everyone
 

jtee

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Yes, I think Fallon would be the right person to post them at this time. Sorry I wasn't around to help out. It is hard for me to get on before my regular time.

I will add the suggestions to what we have and Fallon can post later today.

I shall be off line for another hour.
 

fallon

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thanks jtee...no worries about not being there earlier, I just needed one of you so it was no big deal. I closed the thread for now and I will post these as soon as everything is ready.
 

jtee

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I am still a meeting for another hour.

What I've seen today is not uncommon in forums; a small group of members want to intimidate the moderators by double or tripple teaming a moderator(s) who is isolated.

While posting the rules will help us with new members and member who are currently not a problem, it is unlikely that our current group of problem children will change their behavior. I say this in part because I beleive we do have trolls among us who enjoy causing kaos. Publicly they maybe all tick off, privately they are having a great time thinking of new ways to cause termoil. Lissa would be at the top of that list.
 

jtee

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To clarify what happens when moderators becomes intimidated, they stop enforcing rules on members, and a forum becomes more of a wild west type of forum. The forum is more controlled by those who intimidate than the moderators. Fooser for example would feel free to intimidate anyone at will because he knows that the moderators will let it go or laugh it off.
 

jtee

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Hey, take another look at the first post. It could be tweaked a bit more, but we need to get this posted today if possible. We can always update it later.

Honest to god, I don't want to ban any one. I simply want to get this forum under control and not feel like a select few regular members feel they can fling crap at other members and at us when it suits them. Just because something is funny, doesn't mean underneath it isn't crap and intimidation.
 

jtee

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Could both of you carefully read it for bad grammer and/or anthing that is confusing. I can't proof read very well, and we should make sure we don't post any claring mistakes.

Fallon, when you do post it could you make it a closed thread. That is my recommendation. This is not up for discussion. Most will already know that, but we have a few here that wouldn't be able to resist taking a pot shot at us in a way that will immediately break the guidlelines we have just posted.
 

fallon

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ok guys I'm going to get my hair cut in an hour and I have to get the kids feed and settled with a sitter. when I get home I'll post this with a sticky and a short paragraph about the new rules. Any ideas on the best place to sticky it? I was thinking General but I'm not sure...Maybe forum stuff?