<r>Below is an essay I had to write for school on failure and it's effects on our children. What are your thoughts? I am interested to hear both sides of the debate.<br/>
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<FONT font="Calibri"><s></s>“And in first place on the beam, with a 9.25, is Kristi Clarke!” The sport of gymnastics completely shaped my identity and my life. All through my childhood, each weekday evening from five until nine I was in the gym practicing to become a better gymnast, to earn a spot on the National Team, to possibly earn a college scholarship. When I look back on my career as a gymnast, the lessons I learned are as clear as day – particularly the ones derived from failure. <e></SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT><br/>
<FONT font="Calibri"><s></s>In gymnastics, a slight bobble or a missed grip on the bar often means the difference between standing at the top of the podium and standing on the floor. I quickly learned the value of hard work, mental toughness, and a short memory. If I was to succeed, I couldn’t dwell on my past failures. At the close of my gymnastics career, I was pleased to discover that my sport had adequately prepared me for the real world. <e></SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT><br/>
<FONT font="Calibri"><s></s>I was very young when I learned the consequences of failure, but it seems today’s children are not given that luxury. Nowadays everyone gets the blue ribbon at Field Day. Everyone gets a trophy for participation. We are sending a mixed message that is bound to confuse and lead astray – after all, isn’t failure an essential part of learning what we are good at? Continual failure sends a clear message to “try something else!” <e></SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT><br/>
<FONT font="Calibri"><s></s>Thomas Watson, the founder IBM, said, “The formula for success is simple: double your rate of failure.” On the wall at Facebook’s corporate office the slogan “Fail Harder” is painted in huge letters on the wall. Successful people realize the value of learning from failure. Children who are insulated from failure will be paralyzed by the desire for perfection, never learning how to get up after they are knocked down. <e></SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT><br/>
<FONT font="Calibri"><s></s>I can’t tell you how many times I fell off the beam or crashed to the floor, and I never did get that spot on the National Team. But the lessons I learned from those failures are what make me a successful person today.<e></SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT></r>
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<FONT font="Calibri"><s></s>“And in first place on the beam, with a 9.25, is Kristi Clarke!” The sport of gymnastics completely shaped my identity and my life. All through my childhood, each weekday evening from five until nine I was in the gym practicing to become a better gymnast, to earn a spot on the National Team, to possibly earn a college scholarship. When I look back on my career as a gymnast, the lessons I learned are as clear as day – particularly the ones derived from failure. <e></SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT><br/>
<FONT font="Calibri"><s></s>In gymnastics, a slight bobble or a missed grip on the bar often means the difference between standing at the top of the podium and standing on the floor. I quickly learned the value of hard work, mental toughness, and a short memory. If I was to succeed, I couldn’t dwell on my past failures. At the close of my gymnastics career, I was pleased to discover that my sport had adequately prepared me for the real world. <e></SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT><br/>
<FONT font="Calibri"><s></s>I was very young when I learned the consequences of failure, but it seems today’s children are not given that luxury. Nowadays everyone gets the blue ribbon at Field Day. Everyone gets a trophy for participation. We are sending a mixed message that is bound to confuse and lead astray – after all, isn’t failure an essential part of learning what we are good at? Continual failure sends a clear message to “try something else!” <e></SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT><br/>
<FONT font="Calibri"><s></s>Thomas Watson, the founder IBM, said, “The formula for success is simple: double your rate of failure.” On the wall at Facebook’s corporate office the slogan “Fail Harder” is painted in huge letters on the wall. Successful people realize the value of learning from failure. Children who are insulated from failure will be paralyzed by the desire for perfection, never learning how to get up after they are knocked down. <e></SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT><br/>
<FONT font="Calibri"><s></s>I can’t tell you how many times I fell off the beam or crashed to the floor, and I never did get that spot on the National Team. But the lessons I learned from those failures are what make me a successful person today.<e></SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT></r>