I think that as long as the two of you are still comfortable with taking showers together, it's really no one else's business. My girls and I took baths and showers together until they were 5 or 6.
Wow....judgemental much? Do things your way in your house, but please don't try to tell those of us who did/do it differently that we are WRONG.
I just answered their questions, casually and age appropriately. No big deal.musicmom said:I wouldn't only because by the age of four I think they start getting curious and asking questions.
My children are 22, 18 and 15....so I know how I DID things with them. Not everyone does things the same, and what makes you uncomfortable doesn't make EVERYONE uncomfortable.musicmom said:One day you will understand that things change as your children get older and the things you think you will do in the future you may not do.
When they told me that they wanted to take a bath on their own, I let them. How tough is that to comprehend?musicmom said:How would you even know if your child was uncomfortable?
...stepmommy0221 said:Showering with your child after the age of 4 is definetly beyond belief wrong...even at 5 it's just...well, it's just not right. It's one thing to be in the bathroom at the same time to make sure they don't fall or if they're in the bath, to talk with them...but to actively shower with them? HHEEELLLL NO
Wow....judgemental much? Do things your way in your house, but please don't try to tell those of us who did/do it differently that we are WRONG.
Don't know about your children, but mine certainly knew the difference between showering with mommy and being touched inappropriately, by mommy or anyone else. My oldest daughter had NO problem speaking up to me when she was sexually abused at the age of 6.stepmommy0221 said:how do you teach a child to speak up if they are being sexually abused by some disgusting pedophile when in their mind it's ok to shower with mommy/daddy?
What does that question have to do with showering with a child who still isn't ready, for whatever reason, to shower alone? I am now and have always been, the MOM.stepmommy0221 said:also, are you guys supposed to be parents or friends?