Mindy said:Since this is the randomness thread, can someone tell me how to get my own avatar? I try unloading my own pic, but it doesn't appear, it said the file didn't upload, and yet I can see the pic in my profile, but nowhere else. Can anyone else see a pic in my profile?
No one can make you feel stupid......if you feel that way you're making yourself feel stupid.Mindy said:"Telling it like it is became nasty? Give me a break. You've been here what? A week, how the heck would you know anything? Or are you judging on this one post? Don't post dumb s*** and expect a "you're such a good mom" response when YOU are in the wrong."
Telling it like it is, is different than just plain old nastiness. You can tell it like it is and still have respect for the OP.
Yeah, probably less than a week actually that I have been here. But I read a lot, got a feel for the posters. I noticed that although everyone tells it like it is, they do it without making the poster feel stupid or less than them. They joke a lot but in all seriousness they don't question the person's character the way you do. They just give straight opinions. I just glaze over when someone starts to assume someone is a bad person from a few posts on a message board. Have a little compassion.
No I am not. When the kid obviously doesn't like someone you DO NOT force them to go see them. This isn't about being selfish this is about the girl not wanting to go see the dad. Maybe he should get his lazy ass up and go see her.FooserX said:I absolutely agree with Kim on this one.
Since when do 4 year olds get to decide anything? They're 4! If it were up to them, we'd be watching cartoons and eating McDonald's every night of the week.
Kids have no idea what is best for them, or the family because they are completely selfish. I don't mean that in a bad way, but at that age, everything revolves around their immediate needs.
You're way off on this one SuperMario.
SuperMario said:The crap your bringing up is not relative. Maybe she doesn't want TWO dads. Let her stick with the one she likes. This isn't about school or food it is about someone she likes. She should LIKE seeing her dad. Not getting frustrated. You people are being stupid.
Mindy said:If I had told someone when I was 4 I didn't want to see my dad anymore, and then never saw him again, I'd be so pissed when I got older that someone actually took my 4 year old tantrum seriously enough to cut off my relationship with my dad.
SuperMario said:Should we forced adopted kids to go see their biological parents? No the parents made this situation and the daughter doesn't like it. Leave her be.