Thanks Tom for replying. And my apologies to anyone who was offended or upset with my not letting this go. My goal was simply to get Tom to get on-line and clarify things. My professional experience is that these things need to be cleaned up ASAP so they don't lead to further misunderstanding and hard feelings. And I do understand that I was putting my "mod" status on the line by not letting this go; I'm perceived as the bad guy in all of this, and I am OK with that; maybe if I had just let it go, over time it would have cleared it self up. The risk is that is sometimes things just worse, not better. One misunderstanding leads to another. Whatever happens in the future, this issue is unlikely to be a factor in a negative way; having it resolved is a good thing for the forum, and I just hope that I didn't upset everyone too much in my efforts to bring this private mod\admin matter to a close, so we can move forward without out this being baggage from the past.
If I have any further comments how this was handled, I shall take it up privately with Sanjay and\or Tom.