With the fall and holidays approaching I wanted to know what others thought about a family member visiting with their bf/gf/SO etc or whatever term they give themselves.
Like a granddaughter going to visit grandma and greatgrandma with her serious boyfriend.
By serious I mean plan to file joint taxes next year, live together for the past year already, attend in town family holidays together, share money, basically married but not yet married. Talks about being together for the rest of their lives and have talked about children.
Put them mid-twenties or later for their ages, so not 18 year olds but upwards of 23 and older.
How would YOU work sleeping accommodations?
Would you put them in separate rooms?
What if you only had one extra bedroom?
Would them sleeping in the same room/same bed be an issue or a non-issue in your house?
Would you be offended if they declined the offer to sleep at the house if they couldn't sleep in the same bed and they got a hotel instead?
Like a granddaughter going to visit grandma and greatgrandma with her serious boyfriend.
By serious I mean plan to file joint taxes next year, live together for the past year already, attend in town family holidays together, share money, basically married but not yet married. Talks about being together for the rest of their lives and have talked about children.
Put them mid-twenties or later for their ages, so not 18 year olds but upwards of 23 and older.
How would YOU work sleeping accommodations?
Would you put them in separate rooms?
What if you only had one extra bedroom?
Would them sleeping in the same room/same bed be an issue or a non-issue in your house?
Would you be offended if they declined the offer to sleep at the house if they couldn't sleep in the same bed and they got a hotel instead?