Back to the original point of the thread though, just as I was typing that Sasha gave me a 'wonderful' piece of advice.
Thursday-Friday was Beltane in the southern hemisphere, which is a seasonal festival, we usually celebrate our holidays on the weekend they fall closest to, just to make it easier. Anyway, something that some married pagans do on Beltane is renew handfasting vows, which are the vows you make a year and one day prior to your wedding, which we do, which involves standing over a (very small) fire and having our hands bound to each other's. So we are doing that tonight and Sasha just came up to me and said
"My teacher said that fire can burn you"
"Yes it can"
"Oh, I think you should make a drawing of a fire then instead of real fire, that would be smarter. I'm not going to do it for you though, I'm very busy today."
He is having his birthday party this afternoon, but somehow I don't think he's the one who is going to be busy as such, more likely me.