Recent content by JBKB3

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    Help with 12 yr cousin please....

    How long have you been in the house as a responsible adult figure? If this is something fairly new, then I feel she is just testing you. She can obviously follow the rules and do what is expected when the parent/guardian that dishes out the punishment is around. She is testing you to see how...
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    Need advice, my kid is seeing things....

    Do you believe in ghosts/spirits? It is believed that children are more apt to seeing ghosts. Many years ago my wife and I and our daughter lived in a town house. We were in the bedroom and our daughter was just outside the bedroom door playing at the top of the stairs. She was really...
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    Burritos...

    exactly... it's not child abuse you are just swaddling her. I don't see it as child abuse at all.. you are playing with her, she enjoys it. I spar and grapple with my oldest, is it child abuse? No.. it's training and she enjoys it... of course she is a black belt. It's all about context. If...
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    Hello everyone!...

    Welcome.
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    Hello, new dad in the forums...

    Welcome, good to have another dad on the board.
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    Baby Slings...

    We have used both a sling and this type of carrier off and on. But for a sleeping baby that likes to be snuggled and swaddled the sling worked much better. You don't have to worry about legs, arms, and a head flopping around while you do what you need to do. Holding the baby in your arms for...
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    Tips on how to have a girl?...

    Well I ended up with 3 girls... if I knew the secret I would tell you. JB
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    Should we allow them to win...

    Rather than letting him win you could use it as a teaching tool. Take one of your pieces and say ok IF I put mine here what moves do you see, defense or offense and then leave your piece there and let him play around it. Or sometimes point it out to him if you see him making a bad move helping...
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    Have the tables really turned?...

    Out 10 yr old was not like that at that age, however our 3 yr old came home earlier this year and said she had kissed a boy in her class. She is a very loving child who hugs and kisses her friends/family before she/they leave so I know it has nothing to do with boyfriend/girlfriend type stuff...
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    how to potty train babies?...

    My oldest daughter (now 10) was potty trained at about 2yrs. We bribed her with M&Ms and when she went everyone in the house would cheer and clap for her. Eventually she forgot about the candy and the cheers were enough. Even at night time she only had 4-5 accidents after changing to big...
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    New Father...

    Welcome to the forum.... I know the new baby girl is fun (I had a new girl on Sept 2) but don't leave the step-son out. If at all possible try to include him in on the caring for his baby sister. When my middle daughter was born our oldest daughter was 7 and she was a big help and enjoyed...
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    Tips on how to have a girl?...

    I don't know but whatever the trick is I must be really good at it. :D JB
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    is mma ok to watch for a child?...

    If my daughter was not in Martial Arts at the age of 5, I probably would not have let her watch it at that age. However, it was good for her to see the things she was learning in action. On that note last weekend at the age of 10 she obtained her Black Belt. I don't think kids should just...
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    Hi I'm new here....

    Welcome....from Oklahoma City. JB
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    Disciplining Other Parents' Children...

    Depends on the kid and your relationship with the parents. If you don't know the parents very well then verbal warning is about all you can do. However, if my daughter was at her Karate friends house and was doing something she shouldn't I know she would have to do pushups, squat thrust, etc...