Hi there,
I understand that you love your mom, it's just that she is being so protective and a little bit possessive about you. I feel for you
But then for as long as you live with your parents, you have to follow the rules
Sounds unfair, right? But that the way it is
However, I may suggest that you try to approach your mom in the most gentle manner. Tell her that you are matured enough to have your own privacy
Assure her that you won't upset her, and if ever you will upset her, unintentionally, tell her, you are so willing to face any of her punishment. Now, if that doesn't sound great for your mom, then you have to patient until the right time that you can already move out, and be so independent to live all by yourself. You know, we can't have everything we wanted in life
That's why there's a word, patience, and sacrifice. Remember, you have to obey the rules of your Master. Since you are still living in with your mom, then she will be your master.