Dana's parents (Dad side as they're divorced) like me and her Mom hates me. For all the things wrong I would think they both would but her Dad's the best. Look for the best of the situation, which can be hard.
I've been verbally abusive and taking myself as priority rather than the family. I'm working on it and it's no where near easy. This week I went five days of being perfect and the other two as being a total jerk. Not intentionally but because I'm still working on it. I feel I've done well but the family feels different. My conclusion is today is a new day to make a longer try and being perfect. I know I will faulter but will continue to get back and take each day at a time rather than trying to do everything.
Yesterday I came to two conclusions I need to work on (1) forgiveness of the past and (2) to forget and not use peoples past mistakes against them (goes with part one).
Although my in-laws haven't been the wedge between us, it's been me, I know that you need to just take a step back and take one step at a time. You obviously care for each other as we do for us so just take it slow and be positive. I continue to put myself in their shoes to see what they're looking at.